Its not happening is it? We are just being shown music vids. I can listen to music on my Ipod or watch MTV. Id rather "Talk" as thats the reason I joined this site.
I dont think its the level of difficulty thats bothering people, its the abundance of garbage that is being displayed. This is a singles site, not a photo album or juke box.
All you have to do is say girls only and the guys come running. Oh and in answer to your question, Yes I would say 90% of the time you can tell. But its nice when someone pleasantly surprises you.
You're a beautiful woman and have no need to walk in anyones shadow. You can still be friends but maybe you should find less insecure people to socialise with. Get out there and have fun.
RE: Describe yourself in one word?
Bored.