Well I never get to that point. Usually I may send a message saying something like "Hello, my name is -----, what's yours?" and then I never get a reply. Losers.
Personally I think all o that stuff is for people who are too weak to stand out on their own without it. But I also think it's their OWN BUSINESS too. I'm very big own not judging people by their appearance. I guess it's one a my pet peeves. Then again I must admit that when I see a really beautiful woman with a tattoo I think "why?"
"You're technique is good, I'll give you that. But your Wing-Tsun is no match for my Seishin Kai!!!!"
Also personally I feel that it takes much more than breathing and meditating to fully understand the nuances of one's place within the universe. But that's just me
Hey I waited for the first woman I loved. And man was it worth it. For like five years. Then she ripped my heart out, stomped it flat, and swept it under her carpet. Not that I'm bitter or anything. Honest.
Just for the record, I luv, love, LOVE strong women. What's not to love about a woman thats got lots of smarts and is willing to go to bat for her beliefs?
This one's mostly for the girls but I guess the guys can chime in too. I've been largely ignored so far, so does anybody have any suggestions for my profile? I think I smell funny. Oh wait, it must be my hairy feet. Dammit.
Okay, just to clarify for the ones who apparently only saw the words that they WANTED to see, I said nothing about an affair. I'm not that type of person at all, and if I thought that she was, well, then I wouldn't feel the way I do about her. I guess it's just selfish of me to want to tell her my feelings. In reality, I don't want to do anything to further complicate her life, and I certainly don't want to damage our friendship. And as for "leaving the married women alone and chasing the single women", I don't think you really understood what I've written. See, she's one of the only women who would care if I dropped dead tomorrow. Single women are really good at ignoring me. Which is why I signed up for this site. Now they can ignore me online too!!!!!
Thanks everyone, I guess I just needed somebody to slap some sense into me. The truth is I'm perfectly happy as "just friends"......It's just hard sometimes when I think about how I really feel and when I think about how much we mean to each other as friends. But I know I'd rather have her as a good friend than as nothing at all. Basically everything you've all just said are the exact same things I've been telling myself. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't crazy!!!
I need some impartial advice. I love my best friend. And YES she's a girl. We spend lots of time together and are like peas and carrots. I've somehow managed to keep myself from going head over heels for her because......she's married. He works a strange job where she may not see him for a month at the time. She rarely mentions him, but when she does it's a complaint. There's never been any form of inappropriate dialogue or action between us. We're just real good friends. Basically I'm asking, should I tell her how I feel or bite my tongue?
blueyedtiger Forum Posts (24)
Not that I'm bitter or anything. Honest.
RE: whats the worst thing a partner has done to u?
HOLY COW!!! Where do you guys find these losers at?