best4ubabe Forum Posts (107)

Guys would you date this person?

Man, I have this kind of feeling, Oh I should be in "charge" the man's ego chips in. Then, she is armed, has training, may be Karate..lol, but then I want a woman who is strong willed, could she be, I ask myself? Then..this, that..its all exciting!

Guys would you date this person?

Guys would you date a woman soldier in her uniform and with a gun?

RE: Obama Rocks! The main issues are Health care&Economy!

Thank you Conrad, Axelle Kabou's book examined an unwillingness and inability of Africans and African elites to take development of the continent into their own hands without relying on foreign aid...That is what I referred to above as "Dependency".

The best Entrepreneurs are those that know how to use other people's money and time! I agree with Axelle Kabou that Africa does not need to depend on "Developed" countries for its economic growth, but I also insist that Africa or other developing Nations still need to ride on an elephant's back for some time.

We actually don't need innovators but imitators for us to grow and compete. This has been China's Economic Strategy that has seem them rise to a level of lending to " AMERICA" recently! Besides our Innovations are Sabotaged by those that moved a head of us to keep their "Super Power" positions which they eventually loose anyway and America is no exception!

RE: Obama Rocks! The main issues are Health care&Economy!

Obama’s (America’s) Health and Economic issues concern Africa as well in a sense that as long as planning, analysis and implementation of foreign AID received from countries like USA go according to popular wills; African Nations will prosper and develop like Japan and South Korea.

However, I see in some African countries many American "AID" organizations whose AID comes with a number of challenges that include, economic or political pressure i.e loan repayment of huge amounts of money, dependency on donor country, corruption on local government, and return of the funds to donor countries through employment and supplies.

If it's well planned and orchestrated, it gives more advantage than disadvantage. We definitely share Obama’s success with Americans. To me Obama being Kenyan, Half Arab, black, or whatever does not matter but what he is capable of is a matter of concern not only to America but the whole world!

Thank you for the thread bro.

RE: What would you do with a million dollars?

I would put up a home for the elderly who seem to be abandoned most times!

RE: ABUSING THE SYSTEM

I don't think they are too scared to 'offend' anyone, but "giving back"!

RE: AGE IS JUST A NUMBER..REALLY!

I want a 90 year old woman and want to have kids

RE: What is the biggest turn off to women in a man?

RE: men only please

God not god please!

RE: DO we as citizens of this world have FREEDOM

I heard USA borrowed from China recently!!!!

RE: DO we as citizens of this world have FREEDOM

I thought freedom was not doing what you wish but doing what ought!

RE: Would you relocate to get married?

Will talk! Buy for now. Thank you for being a good person.

RE: Would you relocate to get married?

I am off now to Church! Talk tomorrow. Thanks

RE: Would you relocate to get married?

I can talk to her through yahoo messenger if its okay.

RE: Would you relocate to get married?

When do I get to talk to her?

RE: Would you relocate to get married?

RE: Would you relocate to get married?

Can you come to Africa?

RE: I want to meet over 50 women

RE: I want to meet over 50 women

Do you want to meet over 50 women or women over 50 years of age? Your heading sounds different!

RE: men only please

I don't see a problem with a woman having children before she meets me! It would be like she should have waited for me!!!

However, some jealousy men tend to associate the children with their father/s whenever they see them. This stresses them especially when the mother is still in touch with the father/s of the children. If a man finds this kind environment stressing, then let him try someone else! Its all about choice, but your children are a blessing to your family.

RE: Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?

I understand, please when you feel like coming to Africa, I would request that I sponsor you and your future man for the days you would like to stay!

RE: Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?

I hear Italy is also a tricky place to get a date. How about that? I agree that some places like West and North Africa, could register the highest number of scammers worldwide, but at the same time I think its bad to generalize. I know many good people online from those places. You will miss your perfect match baby! lol

RE: Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?

Oh no! Am black and African. Black is beauty my brother! Some members on CS know me as a controversial guy because of my views, but they have been good to me Men and women. I have not gotten any racial comments here! They are many civilized people here brother! Kick that self something...out of yourself! I bet you will be surprised how many women will contact you! Both white, blue green red, blalablala...!

Bravo to members of CS

RE: What is the biggest turn off to women in a man?

No excuse to try and change!

RE: My turn "and he was bad" ????

For him talking to Janeen, I don't see anything wrong with that! The problem I see is the feeling of insecurity somewhere. Do you trust this guy? Is the problem talking to Janeen or talking to Janeen and forgeting all about you?

It depends on when and how often the "plumbing" issues come up! Is it one of many excuses he brings up whenever you need his attention?

All in all you desire attention but demanding for it won't help. Just let him know you feel, if he loves and respects you, he will try to adjust. In a relationship there is always a price to pay to adjust because we are different.

RE: I DUMPED HIM

You need time to heal! You don't have to rush into another relationship now. You trusted him, loved him, may be showed him to your friends, you must be disappointed. You put in your time, your emotions, .... From this kind of state, you can easily search for a "replacement or "substitute" unconsciously. Your understanding of the new person may be distorted if it is done too early. This is not gospel truth, just an advice!

RE: I DUMPED HIM

You need time to heal! You don't have to rush into another relationship now. You trusted him, loved him, may be showed him to your friends, you must disappointed. You put in your time, your emotions, .... Fromm this kind of state, you can easily search for "replacement or "substitute" unconsciously. Your understanding of the new person may be distorted if it done too early. This is not gospel truth, just and advice!

RE: Is He Interested In Me

Just flee and fly. I will show you where to land!

RE: Is He Interested In Me

Yes. I agree with you. Basing on what she has said, no matter the reason this man is behaving the way he does, she had better FLED!

RE: What do men want?

Have you checked the testimonies forum?