I have been trying to meet my ideal woman online; but to my surprised, I'm blocked and cannot contact most of the women on this site. Is it because I'm black? Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
jnrchairman: I have been trying to meet my ideal woman online; but to my surprised, I'm blocked and cannot contact most of the women on this site. Is it because I'm black? Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks
Being blocked might have something to do with your IP address !
In response to: I have been trying to meet my ideal woman online; but to my surprised, I'm blocked and cannot contact most of the women on this site. Is it because I'm black? Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks
I think it is very negative to think you are being blocked because of your color.
There are different races here and most of us have no problems contacting other members.
No.. Its probably because you are posting from a location which have been filtered out by a lot of people because of the scam messages they receive.
Personally I haved to filter out anyone from Asia to reduce the number of junk I receive.
had the same happen to me we do still live in a prejudice society ordained to media standards disappointgly means white. But it does not have to be that way just be comfortable with who you are find someone on your level possibly hope this helps....
jnrchairman: I have been trying to meet my ideal woman online; but to my surprised, I'm blocked and cannot contact most of the women on this site. Is it because I'm black? Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks
Actually... there are more criteria for being blocked or "invisible" for some ladies ... not only the color of your skin
and If I may suggest ...
Start to post, have fun , right here... on the international forum...show what you are... and what you made of.... learn something...make friends ...
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
yellow1: had the same happen to me we do still live in a prejudice society ordained to media standards disappointgly means white. But it does not have to be that way just be comfortable with who you are find someone on your level possibly hope this helps....
Sorry you might have had that experience and are feeling that way, but I think it has more to do with the OP's location than colour.
Many people block Asia, because of the inordinate amount of scammers from this area, as is the same with many African countries. JMHO
mossopwWest Midlands, Herefordshire, England UK194 posts
jnrchairman: I have been trying to meet my ideal woman online; but to my surprised, I'm blocked and cannot contact most of the women on this site. Is it because I'm black? Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks
You could be Black, Brown, Green, White or Yellow don't make any difference All the guys on here and the many other dating sites are all looking for there ideal woman.....they don't exist mate now if you say you are just looking for a nice woman well they do exist but don't tend to write, chance of meeting a woman on any dating site is just above zero But I wish you the best of luck
yayie: Lo I think it is very negative to think you are being blocked because of your color.
There are different races here and most of us have no problems contacting other members.
No.. Its probably because you are posting from a location which have been filtered out by a lot of people because of the scam messages they receive.
Personally I haved to filter out anyone from Asia to reduce the number of junk I receive.
I agree with everything you said. I have no problem with contacts on CS. On the other hand I don't want contacts from Asia or Africa because of scammers.
But the OP needs to change the settings in his profile too to somthing like dating. He is looking for marriage but is separated. That ain't going to work. You won't be able to marry when you are separated because you are still legally married.
Why is it so hard for a middle aged white woman to find any mate...never mind her ideal mate, anywhere? I read somewhere that I have a better chance of being shot by a terrorist than I do of finding a mate,,,
jnrchairman: I have been trying to meet my ideal woman online; but to my surprised, I'm blocked and cannot contact most of the women on this site. Is it because I'm black? Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks
I agree with most of our frnds here, its got nothing to do with the color or the race. get along with other CS members in forums, polls or blogs and get to know others and let others get to know you. U never knoe when and how you will get your ideal women.... just keep up the spirit of spreading joy, happiness with a sprinkle of wit and intellect.
jbibiza: Why is it so hard for a middle aged white woman to find any mate...never mind her ideal mate, anywhere? I read somewhere that I have a better chance of being shot by a terrorist than I do of finding a mate,,,
jbibiza: Why is it so hard for a middle aged white woman to find any mate...never mind her ideal mate, anywhere? I read somewhere that I have a better chance of being shot by a terrorist than I do of finding a mate,,,
equiya: But the OP needs to change the settings in his profile too to somthing like dating. He is looking for marriage but is separated. That ain't going to work. You won't be able to marry when you are separated because you are still legally married.
I didn't check his profile. That means he is probably filtered out by the majority of women here.
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
jbibiza: Why is it so hard for a middle aged white woman to find any mate...never mind her ideal mate, anywhere? I read somewhere that I have a better chance of being shot by a terrorist than I do of finding a mate,,,
That's unfortunate..... that terrorist might be your ideal mate !
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Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks