Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online? ( Archived) (100)

Feb 8, 2010 5:34 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
jnrchairman
jnrchairmanjnrchairmanBeijing, China2 Threads 56 Posts
I have been trying to meet my ideal woman online; but to my surprised, I'm blocked and cannot contact most of the women on this site. Is it because I'm black?
Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks
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Feb 8, 2010 5:39 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
jnrchairman: I have been trying to meet my ideal woman online; but to my surprised, I'm blocked and cannot contact most of the women on this site. Is it because I'm black?
Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks

Being blocked might have something to do with your IP address !
dunno
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Feb 8, 2010 5:39 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
yayie
yayieyayieden haag, South Holland Netherlands1 Threads 44 Posts
Lo
In response to: I have been trying to meet my ideal woman online; but to my surprised, I'm blocked and cannot contact most of the women on this site. Is it because I'm black?
Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks

I think it is very negative to think you are being blocked because of your color.

There are different races here and most of us have no problems contacting other members.

No.. Its probably because you are posting from a location which have been filtered out by a lot of people because of the scam messages they receive.

Personally I haved to filter out anyone from Asia to reduce the number of junk I receive.
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Feb 8, 2010 5:44 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
tufty
tuftytuftyChelmsford, Essex, England UK4 Threads 816 Posts
More likely the location causing the blocking?
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Feb 8, 2010 5:47 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
SeeUsmile
SeeUsmileSeeUsmileMedina, Ohio USA1 Threads 18 Posts
jnrchairman: Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?


rolling on the floor laughing What? Why shouldn't it be! Equality man! NONE of us are finding our ideal woman, rejection knows no boundaries, LOL

peace-
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Feb 8, 2010 5:47 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
tufty: More likely the location causing the blocking?
LOCATION is the cause of your problem, don't see any predjudices on here, people don't worry about race, creed, or nationality just SCAMMERS
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Feb 8, 2010 5:47 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
yellow1
yellow1yellow1London, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 2 Polls 172 Posts
had the same happen to me we do still live in a prejudice society
ordained to media standards disappointgly means white. But it does not have to be that way just be comfortable with who you are find someone on your level possibly hope this helps....
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Feb 8, 2010 5:50 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
yayie
yayieyayieden haag, South Holland Netherlands1 Threads 44 Posts
SeeUsmile: What? Why shouldn't it be! Equality man! NONE of us are finding our ideal woman, rejection knows no boundaries, LOL

peace-


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Feb 8, 2010 5:51 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
jnrchairman: I have been trying to meet my ideal woman online; but to my surprised, I'm blocked and cannot contact most of the women on this site. Is it because I'm black?
Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks

Actually... there are more criteria for being blocked or "invisible" for some ladies ... not only the color of your skin

and If I may suggest ...

Start to post, have fun , right here... on the international forum...show what you are... and what you made of.... learn something...make friends ...handshake
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Feb 8, 2010 5:51 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
yellow1: had the same happen to me we do still live in a prejudice society
ordained to media standards disappointgly means white. But it does not have to be that way just be comfortable with who you are find someone on your level possibly hope this helps....

Sorry you might have had that experience and are feeling that way, but I think it has more to do with the OP's location than colour.

Many people block Asia, because of the inordinate amount of scammers from this area, as is the same with many African countries.
JMHO
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Feb 8, 2010 5:53 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Boban1: Actually... there are more criteria for being blocked or "invisible" for some ladies ... not only the color of your skin

and If I may suggest ...

Start to post, have fun , right here... on the international forum...show what you are... and what you made of.... learn something...make friends ...



Learn something....being the operative word....professor
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Feb 8, 2010 5:57 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
mossopw
mossopwmossopwWest Midlands, Herefordshire, England UK3 Threads 194 Posts
jnrchairman: I have been trying to meet my ideal woman online; but to my surprised, I'm blocked and cannot contact most of the women on this site. Is it because I'm black?
Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks


You could be Black, Brown, Green, White or Yellow don't make any difference All the guys on here and the many other dating sites are all looking for there ideal woman.....they don't exist mate now if you say you are just looking for a nice woman well they do exist but don't tend to write, chance of meeting a woman on any dating site is just above zero But I wish you the best of luck beer
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Feb 8, 2010 6:01 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
yayie: Lo
I think it is very negative to think you are being blocked because of your color.

There are different races here and most of us have no problems contacting other members.

No.. Its probably because you are posting from a location which have been filtered out by a lot of people because of the scam messages they receive.

Personally I haved to filter out anyone from Asia to reduce the number of junk I receive.


I agree with everything you said. I have no problem with contacts on CS. On the other hand I don't want contacts from Asia or Africa because of scammers.

But the OP needs to change the settings in his profile too to somthing like dating. He is looking for marriage but is separated. That ain't going to work. You won't be able to marry when you are separated because you are still legally married.
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Feb 8, 2010 6:05 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
Englishman55: Sorry you might have had that experience and are feeling that way, but I think it has more to do with the OP's location than colour.

Many people block Asia, because of the inordinate amount of scammers from this area, as is the same with many African countries.
JMHO


Yes.
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Feb 8, 2010 6:06 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
Why is it so hard for a middle aged white woman to find any mate...never mind her ideal mate, anywhere? I read somewhere that I have a better chance of being shot by a terrorist than I do of finding a mate,,,laugh
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Feb 8, 2010 6:07 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
smiling_assasin
smiling_assasinsmiling_assasinIncredible, Delhi India4 Threads 2 Polls 235 Posts
jnrchairman: I have been trying to meet my ideal woman online; but to my surprised, I'm blocked and cannot contact most of the women on this site. Is it because I'm black?
Hope to hear from the good people on connectingsingles.com, thanks



I agree with most of our frnds here, its got nothing to do with the color or the race.
peace get along with other CS members in forums, polls or blogs and get to know others and let others get to know you. U never knoe when and how you will get your ideal women.... just keep up the spirit of spreading joy, happiness with a sprinkle of wit and intellect.
cheers
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Feb 8, 2010 6:08 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
wolyrra
wolyrrawolyrraRiga, Latvia470 Posts
jbibiza: Why is it so hard for a middle aged white woman to find any mate...never mind her ideal mate, anywhere? I read somewhere that I have a better chance of being shot by a terrorist than I do of finding a mate,,,



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Feb 8, 2010 6:10 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
yayie
yayieyayieden haag, South Holland Netherlands1 Threads 44 Posts
jbibiza: Why is it so hard for a middle aged white woman to find any mate...never mind her ideal mate, anywhere? I read somewhere that I have a better chance of being shot by a terrorist than I do of finding a mate,,,


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Feb 8, 2010 6:11 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
yayie
yayieyayieden haag, South Holland Netherlands1 Threads 44 Posts
equiya:
But the OP needs to change the settings in his profile too to somthing like dating. He is looking for marriage but is separated. That ain't going to work. You won't be able to marry when you are separated because you are still legally married.


I didn't check his profile. That means he is probably filtered out by the majority of women here.
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Feb 8, 2010 6:13 AM CST Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
jbibiza: Why is it so hard for a middle aged white woman to find any mate...never mind her ideal mate, anywhere? I read somewhere that I have a better chance of being shot by a terrorist than I do of finding a mate,,,

That's unfortunate..... that terrorist might be your ideal mate !
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