virgiomonkey Forum Posts (4,241)

RE: Politeness... turn on or off?

Interesting,A situation occurred to me about 3 months ago,I was brought up by my Dutch Parents,to be a Gentleman and Have respect and to honor Ladies and on the whole to have Good Manners.I was at Titirangi Post Office to pay some bills and to do some Banking,three young Ladies,approximately in there late 20,s or early 30,s were before me,in front of the Door,so,being a Gentleman I step aside and without a word on my part,I open the Door for them,and they walk though ,only be totally verbally abused that I was a so called, Evil 'Male Chauvinistic Pig',that They could open doors by themselves....!!!!!Hence,I do not open doors anymore for Ladies,be dammed if do,and be dammed if you don't,and Ladies you wonder why Men aren't Gentlemen anymore....!!!! Your views appreciated,thank you,oh a happy 2009 to all. John Dutchie

RE: WHERE'S ALL THE KIWI'S

We have gone to Australia,got sick and tired of all the Social Engineering that has being going now in New Zealand: laugh:

RE: Hi Guys i'm back, had a sheeet week!

Good afternoon Phaedellis,first off,my heart feels for you!!And Yes, I have a Son and Daughter,and love both of them very dearly.So here's a big hug for you And you have made the 'right decision',concerning your son!Until he admits he as a addiction problem,and asks for professional help,then ,be there for him,until then,sorry to say this,there is nothing you can do,and I will stress the point here.'Do not blame yourself for his addition problems' and don't let him 'Blame you,for his addition problems either'!!!!Stay strong,stay focus on the bigger picture and that's 'You'. John Dutchie

RE: The female point system

Spot on!!!!I will pass this on to my 20 year son,this will be a good lesson for him.You can never,ever please a Woman,you are always in the wrong and it is always your 'Fault'!

RE: How cruel and heartless people are

I have just been on the intrls site and been trashed to bits??

This is not a pity thread it is for me some understanding to human minds?
I know really none there and was called a LIAR...yes saw red .
BUT I say BUT it is their insecurities I think would like your thoughts?PLEASE. Hi Cutypie,remember there are still good people out there,so please keep positive and keep smiling!Don't let the a**hole get you down!take care

RE: Fiance

Hi,Cutypie,really sorry whats happen to you and I feel the pain what you are going though,had that done to me and it broke my heart. just a hug for you,a story for you and every one else, I was just ,and note the word just 'Chatting' to a Lady for a few days, who was so called 'single',today I got a email from her so called other halve,basically he hit the roof at me and wanted to quote his exact words to put me 'In a early grave' if I didn't stop emailing his partner. 1/ I didn't know that this lady was in a relationship or married 2/ from now on ,I will ask the question,are you married or in a relationship? 3/ Sorry if I sound old fashion here but any Lady in a marriage or in a relationship,and especially if there are Children involved is totally off limits! John Dutchie

RE: Two ladies.

Awesome joke!!!!!

RE: is it ok for a women or man to hit each other(please do leave e comment on this

No,violence,is not under any circumstances acceptable either from a man or note the word ,woman! Any man that hits a lady as in my opinion,as got major issues that needs be soughted out.As for your Girlfriends,well asked them, how would they feel if there boyfriend/ partner hits them?!!!!Bet you I know the answer to that one.so what right have they got to hit there boyfriend/partner?!!! John Dutchie

RE: Why?

Hi,Nadine yes I know where you are coming from,many years ago I had major lower back problems,so I had a so called disability for a few years, am find now.but to me,the most important thing is "its whats comes from the heart and that counts"!say strong!and proud! Dutchie _flower:

RE: scud man

at least we have water!::wave:

RE: scud man

no sweat, thats makes two of us, I learning also Dutchie