I believe there is such a thing as nice guys ..I found one...and I know there are many more. woman want more than someone who is just a nice guy.....a few of these would be
intelligence. compatibility traits character trustworthy
i could go on but i think this enough to give the idea..
I like a guy who is humble, strong but not macho, likes to relax but isnt lazy..is a problem solver not a complainer..is not so into himself there is no room for me....
so i guess the opposite is what would make me run, I know it certainly turns me off...
ahhh one other thing....someone who thinks that material things is what they need to give meaning to their life...or make it worthwhile....
I would rather be with a man who has nothing and is filled with love than someone who has everything and can feel nothing..jmho...
Dont know about a nervous breakdown but I have had an emotional breakdown which the effects are similar to a nervous breakdown...
It took many years to overcome that... i too was on meds for that time, I am stronger now and have made many gains in the area of my emotions...overcome a lot of obstacles that hindered my recovery but after a period of time found the strength i needed along with the meds and some therapy, to deal with and let go of the circumstances that I allowed to control the way i felt...which gave me the boost to overcome the obstacles and become emotionally stable again......
well as stable as any woman can be when it comes to emotions i guess...
aww riya you are such a sweetie thank you from me and bobby (streetglider) he will be back soon( posiotive thinking) and will thank you as well...please say a prayer for him and send out the healing vibes.......
Bobby honey, I love you, hurry home so you can hurry home......
When things in your lives seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things--your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.
The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
I waited topsee if anyone else would offer insight first but since noone have i will give my take on this...
first i think your hormones are running all nilly and also that you have the fear of the unknown where as you haent actually met yet... i think as my daughter would put it you are my dear "lovesick"
hang in there doll it will subside as you get more use to the idea that something is actually going to happen when you do meet..
I am either writing poetry for one of my books or writing in another book i am working on..if not that, then i am out at the pool with daughter and baby chelsea.......
I have made lots of friends and had a couple broken hearts.. . I am currently with someone i knew before coming to cs and now i am here only for the friends i have made and the fun in the forums...
there are a lot of great people in here,
each one of you are special and just as unique..( I mean that in the best way)
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ooo i just love that smell!!!
cs can be a fun place...
RE: What Guys do that Scares Women Away
..yep! agree 110% with you here bebe....takes the special right out of it real quick!!