What Guys do that Scares Women Away ( Archived) (187)

Jun 30, 2008 4:09 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
Zeelander
ZeelanderZeelanderLouisville, Kentucky USA91 Threads 5 Polls 2,073 Posts
I have a tendency to hold back and be a bit unresponsive (or so I feel) when a woman contacts me. My big fear is to come on too strong and scare her away, so I tend to do the polar opposite.

So my question is... Ladies, what do guys do the scares you away and/or really turns you off?

Zee bouquet
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Jun 30, 2008 4:10 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
popcorn
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Jun 30, 2008 4:11 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
For me its defiantley coming on to strong to soon.

Take your time get to know me before I'll walk down the isle with you.roll eyes grin
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Jun 30, 2008 4:12 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
Zeelander
ZeelanderZeelanderLouisville, Kentucky USA91 Threads 5 Polls 2,073 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing

Not quite the answer I was looking for

Zee
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Jun 30, 2008 4:13 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
alrightie then uh oh super
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Jun 30, 2008 4:14 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
Zeelander
ZeelanderZeelanderLouisville, Kentucky USA91 Threads 5 Polls 2,073 Posts
sxc666: For me its defiantley coming on to strong to soon.

Take your time get to know me before I'll walk down the isle with you.


Isle?

did I mention fear of commitment?

Zee
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Jun 30, 2008 4:14 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
sxc666: alrightie then


Maybe that was posted at me?
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Jun 30, 2008 4:14 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
Zeelander: Not quite the answer I was looking for

Zee


What answer were you loking for then?confused
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Jun 30, 2008 4:15 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
Zeelander
ZeelanderZeelanderLouisville, Kentucky USA91 Threads 5 Polls 2,073 Posts
dcj22: Maybe that was posted at me?


That post was at you...

Zee
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Jun 30, 2008 4:16 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
dcj22: Maybe that was posted at me?
Yeah I cottoned onto that after the post. laugh
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Jun 30, 2008 4:16 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
Zeelander: I have a tendency to hold back and be a bit unresponsive (or so I feel) when a woman contacts me. My big fear is to come on too strong and scare her away, so I tend to do the polar opposite.

So my question is... Ladies, what do guys do the scares you away and/or really turns you off?

Zee


I think you are wise to hold off a bit - it scares the living daylights out of me is somebody is too much in my face thumbs up
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Jun 30, 2008 4:16 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
Zeelander
ZeelanderZeelanderLouisville, Kentucky USA91 Threads 5 Polls 2,073 Posts
gingerb: What answer were you loking for then?


I wasn't looking for a spectator.... that is my job...LOL

Zee
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Jun 30, 2008 4:17 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
sxc666: Yeah I cottoned onto that after the post.




Maybe not. Apparently Tommy has a fear of committment. laugh
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Jun 30, 2008 4:17 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Zeelander: Isle?

did I mention fear of commitment?

Zee
fear of commitment for you. Or are you having a crack at what I said ? dunno
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Jun 30, 2008 4:18 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Zeelander: I wasn't looking for a spectator.... that is my job...LOL

Zee




I like to spectate too. grin popcorn Wanta share?
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Jun 30, 2008 4:23 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
Zeelander
ZeelanderZeelanderLouisville, Kentucky USA91 Threads 5 Polls 2,073 Posts
sxc666: fear of commitment for you. Or are you having a crack at what I said ?


Just having a little fun...

Zee
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Jun 30, 2008 4:24 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
Zeelander
ZeelanderZeelanderLouisville, Kentucky USA91 Threads 5 Polls 2,073 Posts
dcj22: I like to spectate too. Wanta share?


Woo hoo... I love sharing.... and popcorn

Zee
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Jun 30, 2008 4:27 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Zeelander: Woo hoo... I love sharing.... and popcorn

Zee



So see, a fellow spectator isn't so bad if they share. grin
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Jun 30, 2008 4:32 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
horselady5
horselady5horselady5Cincinnati, Ohio, Iowa USA18 Threads 366 Posts
Doesn't have a sense of humor.

Displays a boring, rude cocky attitude .. confidence is one thing but... please!!!

When they only want to talk about themselves.

Brings up their ex-wives & girlfriends in every conversation.

Cussing.
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Jun 30, 2008 4:34 AM CST What Guys do that Scares Women Away
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
And telling me how big you package is in about the 3rd email doesn't really do it for me either.roll eyes thumbs down
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