CarstenCarsten Forum Posts (12)

RE: where is the best place to live in europe?:)

Well...if you look at happiness polls then its definately Denmark

RE: Lonely!!

she is more than welcome here in Denmark...I would take care of her :)

RE: Lonely!!

You know what sweetie...you look amazing on those pics....especially the one where you wear glasses.

Absolutely hot :)
I would date you in a heartbeat.

And you CAN change whatever you want....me, I was a bit heavy too...but 3 months ago I started on diet and exercise...and now I´m down 20 kg....And I can really feel my selfconfidence and self esteem grow with every kg I loose.
Keep your chin up honey....everything will be fine eventually.

RE: A new word starting with the last letter of the word above

LOVE

RE: Good guys in south florida??

you know what...If I lived in Florida I would date you.

You´re a nice looking girl...I´m sure you´ll find the right guy eventually.

Sweet honest hardworking guy seeks his soulmate...are you here?

Hi girls

I´m new to this forum....had a profile here a while back but met a girl I thought I could have a life with....but she played me and now I´m back.

Thought I´d try this forum out...who knows...maybe I´ll find HER here or maybe she will find me :)

I live in Denmark but have a huge dream about moving to the states. I have some friends over there so it wouldnt be a problem for me, and I´d like the change in scenery.

Any women who might find this interessting please send me a message/flower/wink/ whatever you feel like.

I must say...even though it sounds very shallow...I dont reply to profiles w/o pictures, cause no matter what there HAS to be some kind of physical attraction....I dont mean you have to be a model or whatever, but there has to be the spark you know.

Well...that being said....I´m looking forward to hearing from all you girls outthere.

Happy easter to all

Why does it hurt so much?

thank you for your kind words

I did cut her completely out of my life and now I´m looking forward and embracing life to the fullest.

I do still think about her, but thats only normal when I had these feelings......I just need to find that special someone with my name on :)

So watch out...here I come *SS*

and again....thank you all for your comments...I really appreciate it

Why does it hurt so much?

yeah....I know....and I am going to the gym....have been until now....4 times a week :)

And well...I dont go out much....I´d rather meet people online cause I have a really hard time picking up girls when I´m out, cause I´m very shy when it comes down to it.

But online I´m not and I can say what I really feel about a person, without being nervous or whatever....So I just think I´ll stay here looking :)

Fortunately I meet a lot of new people thru my work so here´s an option 2.

Why does it hurt so much?

yeah sorry about that.....It was $230 not £230...it was ONLY £160...still...its a fair amount of money and I know you can fly cheaper than that with Easy-Jet / Ryan Air, but I did that once and will never ever do it again....rather spend some more money and get to choose what time of day I´d like to fly....not only have 2 or 3 options...which all suck big time.

Thats why I flew with either SAS or BA...It´s a bit more expensive but worth it.

And the ticket price wasnt the problem here....only a minor thing.

And another update......I talked to her today and everything is off....I´m not going to see her again...EVER...her choosing..not mine.

I know I will get over it some day....and I know there is a nice girl out there, somewhere, with my name on :)...now I just have to wait for her to show :)

Why does it hurt so much?

well...as I said....its damn hard.
Only 3 weeks ago she sent me a txt where she said "I think I really love u" and now this.....what could possibly have changed since then.

And last time I was over we kissed a lot....would you kiss a guy you didnt like?

Why does it hurt so much?

Thank you all for your replies

The thing is we talked on the phone only 2 days ago and all was fine and then all of a sudden she´s like this...I was really looking forward to seing her again.

Its just to damn hard right now.....I feel like I lost everything.
I´m a very emotionel guy and this is a bit too much if you know what I mean. I know there will be other women around but right now it looks a bit "dark".

And I dont know anyone else in London and I have, thank god, not booked any accomodation, cause I was supposed to stay with her.

She´s telling me she dont want any attachments in her life and she´s perfectly happy by her self.
But earlier when I said I loved her and wanted to be with her, she said "only time can tell"...why not say it straight up then?
Why lead me on like this?

I know that if I do go I will hurt even more, but on the other hand I would like to see her one last time....I do think I will cancel the entire trip and accept the loss,but still.

I´m so confused :(

Why does it hurt so much?

I met this really nice girl from London...Me..I live in Denmark.
I got so fond of this girl that I was ready to move to London just to be closer to her.
We´ve been talking/chatting for 5 months.
Now after I´ve visited her 2 times (over 2 weekends) where we kissed and held hands....nothing more....she even said she loved me...and it felt right....I was supposed to visit her for easter but now she says that she only likes me as a friend and that it wont change....and she´s not sure if I should come over.
So now I´m sitting here with a planeticket and dont know what to do....Do I visit her one last time and torture myself by being in her company (as she only loves me as a friend and I have deeper feelings for her) or do I skip the trip and accept a £230 loss on the ticket?


I´ve really opened up my heart for her and now she rips it out by saying she dont like me for more than a friend.

I feel so down right now.....what do I do to get over this feeling??

Any ideas are welcome :)

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