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Mar 25, 2009 10:54 AM CST Lonely!!
Elle25
Elle25Elle25Meath, Ireland2 Threads 8 Posts
I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..

Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.
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Mar 25, 2009 10:57 AM CST Lonely!!
verchiel
verchielverchielNusa Dua Bali, Bali Indonesia3 Posts
hope u will find someone you like in here
good luck for u!
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Mar 25, 2009 10:58 AM CST Lonely!!
Tamarin
TamarinTamarinsomewhere, Lothian, Scotland UK173 Threads 1 Polls 3,267 Posts
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..

Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.


There are hundreds just the same out there....

Go to the Dublin meet...

The Irish CS are really friendly....

Join a gym, go swimming, talk to another mum at the school gate...

Take a big gulp of courage and go for it you have everything to gain and nothing to loose...

Yep I can understand the nerves and I think we all worry to much about what others think of us...

Go for it!!!!hug
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Mar 25, 2009 10:59 AM CST Lonely!!
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..

Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.
ahhh your young do like Tam says, just go for it head banger
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Mar 25, 2009 11:00 AM CST Lonely!!
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..

Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.


wave Hi .

Well you got over your shyness to start this thread ,

well done thumbs up

Also I see you are introducing all the guys , to your lil friends

now ya can't be that shy doh

laugh
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Mar 25, 2009 11:02 AM CST Lonely!!
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..

Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.



If you have things about you that make you feel less inferior, Maybe you need to change the bad things, about yourself. Make theme positive , and put your Chin up, But Do Change the Negatives! Thats what I do , and I can be proud,and stand tallprofessor peace dancing yay
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Mar 25, 2009 11:03 AM CST Lonely!!
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
You cud com to Serbia,if you start walking right now you cud meet me in.......4yrs cool yay handshake
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Mar 25, 2009 11:03 AM CST Lonely!!
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
livinglarge: Hi .

Well you got over your shyness to start this thread ,

well done

Also I see you are introducing all the guys , to your lil friends

now ya can't be that shy


I too have found that being on this site has kinda got me out of my shell a little. Start writing notes to people, you will be surprised how much it will boost your confidence !! cool
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Mar 25, 2009 11:05 AM CST Lonely!!
tumtum52
tumtum52tumtum52trenton, New Jersey USA8 Threads 633 Posts
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..

Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.
the only person you should be worrying about is what god thinks of you, the rest is irrelevent.comfort
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Mar 25, 2009 11:06 AM CST Lonely!!
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
jeepers: I too have found that being on this site has kinda got me out of my shell a little. Start writing notes to people, you will be surprised how much it will boost your confidence !!


thumbs up So true .
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Mar 25, 2009 11:06 AM CST Lonely!!
In response to: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..

Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.


Here's a couple of suggestions for you. You have a lovely face so put more pictures up and another although it was really really crappy what that guy emailed you. Take it off your site and get something a bit more positive. You can leave in a line to add humor. Just an idea darlin.teddybear
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Mar 25, 2009 11:09 AM CST Lonely!!
DoznEggs
DoznEggsDoznEggsAny town, New Jersey USA17 Threads 933 Posts
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..

Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.


You're a beautiful lady! If you think highly of yourself, others will too. (Although I have a bit of that syndrome myself.... worry too much about what others think. What's important is what we think of ourselves).

Have fun! Enjoy!

Post, Post, Post in the forums.

Nice to meet you Elle

wine
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Mar 25, 2009 11:13 AM CST Lonely!!
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..

Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.


Hi Elle

Sorry to hear you are lonely...moping

However, I would, as other have suggested, take that email off your profile. It just looks a little out of order, as it is the first thing people will see when they view you..

Thats the joy of online dating - even if you are normally nervous, which alot of us are when meeting people, you dont have to be when posting on the forums.

Just go for it, join in, and dont be afraid of emailing/flowering people if you see someone you like!

Good luck and enjoy..thumbs up

Good Morning/Afternoon, all...wave
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Mar 25, 2009 11:15 AM CST Lonely!!
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
Afternoon Dawn , Petal, everyone wave
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Mar 25, 2009 11:27 AM CST Lonely!!
clara1956
clara1956clara1956Punta Arenas, Magallanes Region Chile37 Threads 1 Polls 1,426 Posts
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..

Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.


You are surely less shy after you posted this message! You took the step and that requires courage, doesn´t it. And do not worry too much about what others think of you. It`s your own opinion that matters. That, and acting right. Believe me.

I`d just suggest to keep posting and contacting ppl.

Have fun!


cheering cheering cheering
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Mar 25, 2009 11:34 AM CST Lonely!!
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
Wouldn't have expected you being nervous lookin at ur pic and that u care so much what people think doesn't really add up with ur profile.You dont give a .... what damienirl thinks thats for sure rolling on the floor laughing
But yep a lot of us are lonely otherwise WTF most of us r doin here and you look very good to me so no need to be shy as well.Pick the good and throw out the bad apples...
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Mar 25, 2009 1:25 PM CST Lonely!!
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..

Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.
hug You have my sympathy! I am so afraid of disappointing someone that I don't make an effort to know them. Good luck, hope you can get over it!hug
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Mar 25, 2009 2:06 PM CST Lonely!!
curefan
curefancurefanmount olive, Mississippi USA38 Threads 2 Polls 674 Posts
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..

Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.
hey elle25 dont worry this can be overcomehug
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Mar 25, 2009 2:08 PM CST Lonely!!
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
curefan: hey elle25 dont worry this can be overcome


and she is cute ... Isn't she? grin

Hey up there hug hug wave
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Mar 25, 2009 6:45 PM CST Lonely!!
Elle25
Elle25Elle25Meath, Ireland2 Threads 8 Posts
Yeah... Thats what I do or I go on this big rant that im not very pretty??? and not to expect much??? Like who says that to a guy they havent met yet i guess its better to say well i knew he wouldnt like me then to be rejected for the 100 time, gets a bit old. lol anyway thanks for al the messages I didn't expect so many replys. Your very nice , thank you and I changed my profile too, having a bad day and that moran didn't help lol
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