Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..
Why am I so afraid of what people think of me? It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.
If you have things about you that make you feel less inferior, Maybe you need to change the bad things, about yourself. Make theme positive , and put your Chin up, But Do Change the Negatives! Thats what I do , and I can be proud,and stand tall
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
livinglarge: Hi .
Well you got over your shyness to start this thread ,
well done
Also I see you are introducing all the guys , to your lil friends
now ya can't be that shy
I too have found that being on this site has kinda got me out of my shell a little. Start writing notes to people, you will be surprised how much it will boost your confidence !!
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
jeepers: I too have found that being on this site has kinda got me out of my shell a little. Start writing notes to people, you will be surprised how much it will boost your confidence !!
In response to: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..
Why am I so afraid of what people think of me? It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.
Here's a couple of suggestions for you. You have a lovely face so put more pictures up and another although it was really really crappy what that guy emailed you. Take it off your site and get something a bit more positive. You can leave in a line to add humor. Just an idea darlin.
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..
Why am I so afraid of what people think of me? It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.
You're a beautiful lady! If you think highly of yourself, others will too. (Although I have a bit of that syndrome myself.... worry too much about what others think. What's important is what we think of ourselves).
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..
Why am I so afraid of what people think of me? It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.
Hi Elle
Sorry to hear you are lonely...
However, I would, as other have suggested, take that email off your profile. It just looks a little out of order, as it is the first thing people will see when they view you..
Thats the joy of online dating - even if you are normally nervous, which alot of us are when meeting people, you dont have to be when posting on the forums.
Just go for it, join in, and dont be afraid of emailing/flowering people if you see someone you like!
clara1956Punta Arenas, Magallanes Region Chile1,426 posts
Elle25: I'm so bloody lonely, why is it so hard to find someone ya like..
Why am I so afraid of what people think of me? It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.
You are surely less shy after you posted this message! You took the step and that requires courage, doesn´t it. And do not worry too much about what others think of you. It`s your own opinion that matters. That, and acting right. Believe me.
I`d just suggest to keep posting and contacting ppl.
rodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands3,401 posts
Wouldn't have expected you being nervous lookin at ur pic and that u care so much what people think doesn't really add up with ur profile.You dont give a .... what damienirl thinks thats for sure But yep a lot of us are lonely otherwise WTF most of us r doin here and you look very good to me so no need to be shy as well.Pick the good and throw out the bad apples...
Yeah... Thats what I do or I go on this big rant that im not very pretty??? and not to expect much??? Like who says that to a guy they havent met yet i guess its better to say well i knew he wouldnt like me then to be rejected for the 100 time, gets a bit old. lol anyway thanks for al the messages I didn't expect so many replys. Your very nice , thank you and I changed my profile too, having a bad day and that moran didn't help lol
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Why am I so afraid of what people think of me?
It puts me off dating , I get so so nervous, like you wouldn't believe.