Lumblebee Forum Posts

Oct 7, 2008

RE: do u believe your soulmate exists?

nope..i don't.

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Oct 7, 2008

RE: What the f is wrong with people?

gah! sorry for all the typos

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Oct 7, 2008

RE: What the f is wrong with people?

While I agree that the dog not being on a leash was no reason for such cruelty I do understand other's point as to how the dog needs to be watched.

I live in a large open area on several acres of land where when I owned dogs they were watched at all times to make sure they did not roam. If I was not home then they were either put inside the fence or in my house. I NEVER allowed them to wander.

Unfortunately I lost all three of them when they were shot by hunters IN MY OWN EFFING YARD because they tried to run off the hunting dogs that came onto our property and were chasing our cats. They just blew them away without any thought.

You sound very upset by what has happened and I offer my sympathies to you and your roommate. Watch you pup. They are cruel and hateful people in this world.

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Oct 6, 2008

RE: OK I just voted, are you going to?

quite the opposite, my dear lady!!

Because a person didn't vote, they have the right to say, Hey, I didn't put that guy in office! You voters did! So I can complain about you're poor decision all I want to. I didn't vote for anyone!![/quote

I have not voted for anyone if i in fact did not like either candidate. I'm not sure about this year. I am still listening with ears wide open before i make a final descision.

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OPOct 5, 2008

help. serious answers only please

Believe me i have

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OPOct 5, 2008

help. serious answers only please

Ok a number of things I want to clear up.

I am in virginia and he is in another country. i owe him no money and he sent one small inexpensive gift. he quit his job and moved in with his parents but never in any way at all did i even suggest him doing anything like that. when we spoke about it i always said it was up to him. as for marriage..there was slight talk of it but nothing was ever exchanged in agreement for a engagement such as rings. as for emails..there are many with claims of love (which were true on my part regardless of me not being honest) he asked several times to come and see me where i declined but on more than one occassion did say that i would be going where he was but never gave a specific date.

another thing..we did not meet on a dating site it was his personal forum and most of the communication was over the phone or through emails.

also..i never said that i did not think myself guilty. i know that i am and i will own up to all that i am guilty of. he is a very lovely man and undeserving of anything i did. never ever was it done to deliberately cause him pain of any kind and once i started to see that it was doing so i tried to get myself away from it. it was a hard thing to do as i thought alot of him and my attempts only made things worse on him.

i am glad it is over. i just want to know what is headed my way and what would/will happen if he brings a case against me. if i am sued what will happen. that is what my general question was.

i thank you all for answering and giving advice and if it seems as if the 'whole story is not there then please understand that there are things that i do not want to share in such a public place not only for my privacy but as well as for his. I wanted advice and I only put in the details i thought needed.

Thanks again to everyone and please continue to share advice and opinions as all will be appreciated.

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OPOct 4, 2008

help. serious answers only please

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OPOct 4, 2008

help. serious answers only please

he has emails from me but not as "me" meaning not my real name but the false one i gave him.

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OPOct 4, 2008

help. serious answers only please

i did not sign any agreements

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OPOct 4, 2008

help. serious answers only please

sigh...i don't know..i am just goi9ng by what he says..trying to find out if he can and what will happen if he does. he thought i was someone else and that i looked different. he says that he has alot of emotinal damage because of it

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OPOct 4, 2008

help. serious answers only please

almost two years ago I met a man through his personal website and because I was a shy and very self consious person I told him my name was something other than my own and sent pictures that were not truly of me. As time progressed he started to develope feelings for me and though I knew it was wrong and unfair and because I was afraid of losing his friendship I did not tell him the truth. Now that he has found out all that I have ever told him was untrue he says that he will sue me for breach of promise and I do know that he is in fact very serious. I won't try and fight it because I know I am guilty of all he says but I am very worried as to what will happen.

I don't own anything. Not a house or a car..nothing and I do not work.. What happens when you are sued but have nothing to pay? Do you go to jail?

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Oct 4, 2008