women with children dont bother me it be hard for me arranging time to go out as i work shifts and trying to arrange my time off and her getting a babysitter but i be happy spending a night in the house with her watching a dvd as much as going out if its a guy you want for a long term that be first test whether he can accept your time not your own if he cant accept that then hes not worth your time or effort
very harsh i think if she not interested she should be mature enough to say so nothing worse for a guy to left in limbo wondering what he did wrong ,the guy is obviously crazy about her and brave enough to ask advice and take it my personal opinion is go for it crazyg pull out all the stops let her know you care but only thing i agree with funky is stop the calls or she will be annoyed but flowers leter writing even serenading if you brave enough but at end of day if she tells you flat out she interested then you must accept it but till that time comes all bets are off
well when he says hes seperated how long is he seperated? is their kids involved so there is a reason he be seeing the ex not sure why you think he married but best advice is go with gut instinct as posted above ask him to do stuff that a married man finds hard to do like long weekends away though just have a look at his flat see if any womans touches in the flat/house
well being the hopless rommantic i am here is somthing rough he can use
dear xxxxx i am writing you this letter in the hope that somehow i can express some of the feelings i have for you and of recent events maybe its better this way that i write instead of talking maybe i dont express enough how deep my feelings for you are i dont know what i did to hurt you so much maybe it was a thoughtless gesture somthing i said or did not say the only thing more agonising of thinking i hurt you is the confusion of not knowing why. i spend the days replaying our conversations and reliving our moments together trying to find the answer , maybe im just just not perceptive or intuitive enough to know the answer i hope you read this and talk to me when you ready to ,i realy like you and want to continue to have you in my life hopefully you can exsplain to this poor fool in to what he did wrong i cant promise never to do somthing to hurt you in future only promise not to do same mistake twice if i know it hurts you please contact me when you ready love xxxx
write a hand written letter expressing how you feel about her ,exsplain you not sure what you did wrong but want to make it right but feel you both need to communicate and talk about it tell her your willing to whatever it takes to make the relationship work but need a starting poing to go fwd
how long you been out? i would imagine it be hard just getting back in to normal civie life never mind a relationship one step at a time if you just been discharged in last few months or so
cant say i have ever had a phobia but my brother had a fear of rats when younger he saw a dead rat when a toddeler few years later he had hallucinations of them would be so bad he was afraid to wear clothes fear lasted a year or 2
RE: is dating harder when you have children?
women with children dont bother me it be hard for me arranging time to go out as i work shifts and trying to arrange my time off and her getting a babysitter but i be happy spending a night in the house with her watching a dvd as much as going outif its a guy you want for a long term that be first test whether he can accept your time not your own if he cant accept that then hes not worth your time or effort