Is my boyfriend married? (29)

Jul 16, 2009 4:36 PM CST Is my boyfriend married?
D12345
D12345D12345London, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 13 Posts
I have a boyfriend who says he is separated but there are some signs that make me suspect he is actually married. How can I find out if he is really married?
Jul 16, 2009 5:01 PM CST Is my boyfriend married?
mike37den
mike37denmike37denBroadstairs, Kent, England UK155 Posts
D12345: I have a boyfriend who says he is separated but there are some signs that make me suspect he is actually married. How can I find out if he is really married?


Tell him you don't believe his crap unless he produces a copy of the written evidence from a solicitor of his legal seperation by the next time you see him. - If he fails, just tell him to piss offf there and then and mean it.
Jul 16, 2009 6:00 PM CST Is my boyfriend married?
potter1
potter1potter1stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 178 Posts
ask him for a long weekend away,and watch his reaction you will know.teddybear
Jul 17, 2009 7:10 AM CST Is my boyfriend married?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
well seperated is still married .......

so becarefull he might still be seeing the seperated wife you never kno ...seperation is touchy ground....

take care wine
Jul 17, 2009 8:30 AM CST Is my boyfriend married?
tova5
tova5tova5hertfordshire, Hertfordshire, England UK8 Posts
Ask him for his home phone number,if he doesn,t let you have it. I would say he is married.wave
Jul 17, 2009 8:49 AM CST Is my boyfriend married?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
D12345: I have a boyfriend who says he is separated but there are some signs that make me suspect he is actually married. How can I find out if he is really married?
If your gut instinct is that he's married then I'd say there's a good chance that he is thumbs up

If you met him online be even more wary, as married/attached men/women use the internet as a tool to find themselves a bit on the side professor

Also, I reckon that some married couples have open relationships or live separate lives under one roof. Because, I know of at least two who have their pics up on chat/dating sites and they have women texting and ringing them at all times, even during the night, so be very careful professor
Jul 17, 2009 1:31 PM CST Is my boyfriend married?
passion8
passion8passion8Shropshire, England UK3 Threads 158 Posts
If he is your boyfriend, then surely you have an idea of where he lives. Suggest that he cooks you a meal and you spend the night at his place for a change.
Jul 17, 2009 7:16 PM CST Is my boyfriend married?
ChasingCars
ChasingCarsChasingCarsCrappy Thrappy, Northamptonshire, England UK26 Threads 5 Polls 1,006 Posts
One suggestion might be:

Tell him that you were contacted by a GUM clinic - that someone you saw shortly before you met him had a bad dose of "Surrey Docks" and unfortunately both you and he need to get checked out. Oh and a few weeks later tell him that unfortunately your results were positive and see what happens.

If he's not single, it might make him end up that way.
Jul 19, 2009 9:43 AM CST Is my boyfriend married?
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
D12345: I have a boyfriend who says he is separated but there are some signs that make me suspect he is actually married. How can I find out if he is really married?




Why ask us confuseddon't you think maybe you should be asking him that dunno good luck with it anyway wave
Jul 19, 2009 3:06 PM CST Is my boyfriend married?
D12345
D12345D12345London, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 13 Posts
uptall: Why ask us don't you think maybe you should be asking him that good luck with it anyway


Isn't it clear why???
Jul 19, 2009 3:30 PM CST Is my boyfriend married?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
In response to: I have a boyfriend who says he is separated but there are some signs that make me suspect he is actually married. How can I find out if he is really married?
So, did you find out yet if he's married or not?
Jul 19, 2009 6:17 PM CST Is my boyfriend married?
D12345
D12345D12345London, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 13 Posts
Zellarrone1: So, did you find out yet if he's married or not?

Not yet. He says he was, that's it's all past and says I am crazy to suspect him but I am determined to find out.
Jul 19, 2009 6:20 PM CST Is my boyfriend married?
jojo69
jojo69jojo69Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 1,565 Posts
D12345: Not yet. He says he was, that's it's all past and says I am crazy to suspect him but I am determined to find out.


Fairplay to you bab, and good luck.

Jo
Jul 20, 2009 3:23 AM CST Is my boyfriend married?
well when he says hes seperated how long is he seperated?
is their kids involved so there is a reason he be seeing the ex
not sure why you think he married but best advice is go with gut instinct as posted above ask him to do stuff that a married man finds hard to do like long weekends away
though just have a look at his flat see if any womans touches in the flat/house
Jul 22, 2009 1:06 AM CST Is my boyfriend married?
confused
damn i thought the irish forums slow at timesrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jul 22, 2009 4:17 AM CST Is my boyfriend married?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
tallaght_guy: damn i thought the irish forums slow at times
If you think the pace on here is slow now then you should try partisspi$$taking on here when it comes to a complete standstill professor


laugh
Jul 22, 2009 3:05 PM CST Is my boyfriend married?
lol that bad huh
Zellarrone1: If you think the pace on here is slow now then you should try partisspi$$taking on here when it comes to a complete standstill
Jul 22, 2009 4:16 PM CST Is my boyfriend married?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
tallaght_guy: lol that bad huh
It does get a bit busier during winter and christmastime though professor

Too cold to go outside so everyone hibernates on here laugh
Jul 22, 2009 7:03 PM CST Is my boyfriend married?
lint874
lint874lint874Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 414 Posts
Do you want me to follow him home after your next date, D12345?

Then we'll find out the truth.

It's out there somewhere...
Jul 23, 2009 9:11 AM CST Is my boyfriend married?
D12345
D12345D12345London, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 13 Posts
lint874: Do you want me to follow him home after your next date, D12345?

Then we'll find out the truth.

It's out there somewhere...


Great idea ! lol
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