it's sounds very like he is having he's cake and eating it and if you take him back what respect have you left in his eyes stand up for yourself every deserves a proper relationship i can say he will never change cause he is getting away with his behaviour he is a player don't let yourself be the fiddle
wicklow town was where i was thinking, and was just saying august to a friend as i'm in the middle of organising a school reunion at the moment so wouldn't be able to start till after june on the organisingany help organising would be great as i never done this before so all suggustions welcome.
hi all was just thinking of trying to organise a bash in wicklow hoping to get a night club and hopefuly some reduced rate rooms for people traveling hopefully getting a dj that will be up to have party games going ect. just if anyone is interested let me know thanks
hi being separated for seven yrs and i too had an argument with my daughters grandmother and auntie which as time passed was over nothing really my daughter see her aunties and grandmother on rare occasions and i keep things simple dont answer to much about my life keep the conversation on my daughter e,g how well she's doing at school ect and never never ever tlk about my ex or probelms i may be having with him that way my daughter gets to see the other side of the family so if you can for the sake of your son put the argument aside you wont have to go to court and will keep control of the access as far as i know auntie have'nt much rights but grandparents do and best to keep them on side
get a friend to ring to see how things are going if not going well you can always use this as an emergency if you have have kids could say their playing up
but only use if need be go out with the attitude that you are going to enjoy yourself don't think of it as a date but meeting up with a friend and be honest if they don't push the right buttons then say and you never know maybe this person could become a mutual friend. hope it all goes well for you cause it's not easy dating today espeically if your over 25 and have been hurt in the past
that is horrible my gran had it and its so awful to see the person you know and love slip away before your eyes my prayers to you and your family as putting them into a nursing home is the hrdest decision to make the guilt invovled cause you know they don't want it but need it
lovely poem i miss my dad to died 15yrs ago last november and he was my rock the one man i knew i could depend on i'm only sorry he missed meeting my own children as he would have doted on them as i was the youngest and a real daddies girl if i ever met a man that could measure up to him i'd be doing well and no he was far from perfect but a great dad and husband as i know my mum misses him every day too
lovely poem i miss my dad to died 15yrs ago last november and he was my rock the one man i knew i could depend on i'm only sorry he missed meeting my own children as he would have doted on them as i was the youngest and a real daddies girl if i ever met a man that could measure up to him i'd be doing well and no he was far from perfect but a great dad and husband as i know my mum misses him every day too
it depends on the ex i know i would never go back with my hubby after split soent two mths crying and feeling sorry for myself only to realise i was much better off without him for as well as being a cheater i realised that he contributed nothing to the relationship in fact even refused to mind his own daughter while i went to shop for him so no going back then after yrs i met some-else we weren't exactly dating by one thing did lead to another and i ended up pregnant the relationship or whatever it was ended but if he called me i would think of giving it a proper go even though we havent seen each other since but there was something there worth giving a go and for some strange reason while i should be angry at him I'm not and do miss the time we spent together
your right vonney manners cost nothing i to like to be treated well but also like to be independant if a guy were to buy me a drink then it's mine round next fair is fair and i think that shering is the best i know alot of woman that have good men but walk all over them and vice a versa which is really sad if you ask me a relationship should be equal with respect on both sides
it depends on how committed each person is and on the trust level you have people cheat thats fact unfortunatly if you don't trust that person it'll never work on the other hand if theres trust and respect it can work very well
i would blame both as it has happeed to mme fistly my husband knew he was marrid and secondly the third party knew he was married as far as i'm concerned neither had no morals being separated i.ve had married men come on to me and it's just a no-no i tell el to sort out their marriage as an adul i can handle the cheating and separtion speaking for my daughter she finds it diffcult so come in all fairness if som-one cheated on his wife with you three's nothing there to stop him chating on you as you have already given the go ahead that cheating is exceptible so girls stick together give anyone the rope they'll hang themselves
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if you don't trust that person it'll never work on the other hand if theres trust and respect it can work very well
RE: I need advice when it comes to an ex...
it's sounds very like he is having he's cake and eating it and if you take him back what respect have you left in his eyes stand up for yourself every deserves a proper relationship i can say he will never change cause he is getting away with his behaviour he is a player don't let yourself be the fiddle