I can honestly say the times that I "didn't" follow my instincts were "very much" regretted! And I have learned better through experience, to say the least.
Aha, one that was wise enough to do some reading before finally making a post! You learn quickly! "Most" of the time if you're nice, others will play nice. But look out to those who are rude/condescending and belittling..........then it gets ugly real quick!
RE: Will you still stay with your GF/BF when you know he/she has serious health problem?
Absolutely! I'm there no matter what because I love him. I will let Slim elaborate, IF he so choses.