In life is not important how hard you can hit, but how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward, how much you can take and keep moving forward, that how Winners have done! Now if you know what you worth GO and get what you worth, but you gonna be worth to take the hits, and not point the finger saying you will not be what you want because of him or her or anybody,
Obviously when an event happens, there is no one to change that because we can’t stop the time or that we revise it. Like someone has a car accident and dies. So do we have to say that was the destiny of that person and that had to happen for him/her to die that way?
The answer is NO.
However, we can change the things before that occurs. That’s true what others had said about action/reaction and cause/effects. This universe is very complicated and there are so many mysteries about it. What I believe is that each person can choose their own destiny the way they think and act. But in the mean time I can’t deny that what had to happen happens.
Absolutely, your partner should be your best friend and you should be your partner’s best friend as well but that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have some other best friends because it’s always good to have lots of loyal and best friends around you. Off course the friendship with the partner is the most special one.
What you have stated gave me the idea to run a seminar and attract like minded people that at the end of seminar I give them my contact details and hopefully I find my match amongst them. You think this is a good idea?
Thanks for your post. I let my heart to speak a loud a little.
33 years had passed since I was born. The moment I was born, I was a cute baby with no mistakes but as the time passed I’ve done so many mistakes in my life, the times that I could’ve been being more kind to people around me, my parents, my friends but because of my pride and selfishness I didn’t, instead I’ve ruined the opportunities that I had in my life as well as my friendships. Today I look at life from different angle, I want to help people, I want to love and I want to be loved. My dream is that to fall in love with someone that we both love each other that we’ll have a baby. I want to be more humble, I don’t want pride or selfishness anymore because that didn’t give me anything except that I lost everything. Even all those kings with all their power and pride went to the grave empty handed. I want to be known as a real gentleman in my life and to be remembered as a good and loving person after I am dead. I want to be a giver, I could’ve been doing much more better in my life and I didn’t, I could’ve been giving more love and respect to the people around me but I didn’t and I am deeply sorry about it. I want a change in my life. I want a revolution in my self. You are right, that is easier to be nasty to others than showing respect and love. After all the mistakes that I’ve done I know that deep down in my heart I am a good person but I didn’t use it as I should’ve.
Yes, you guessed right. That’s why I called her today and I wished her that her relationships to workout with that guy. I never get into a relationship with her in the future and the truth is that I also became reluctant to even do business with her but because we have signed a contract I do only this contract and then I say good bye to her. Thanks for your advice, very good advice.
It’s been a very good experience for me not to fall in love easily.
I didn’t know about her relationship also, until she told me that her visitor due to come to London to stay with her for two weeks and that was arranged even before we met but also she told me that she’ll be with me after he leaves, but I’m thinking if that’s what she wants why she didn’t cancel that meeting and is that a right thing that I enter into a relationship with her after this two weeks?
I am definite about signals, because we are reading each other’s mind. I know that she loves me too,and yes she wants to have a relationship with me but all these happend only in a few weeks, she explained to me about her past relationship with that guy and they were going to get married but it didn’t work out. And I am positive that she wants to be with me after he leaves.
That might sound amusing, but that might also happen to you or may be that happened to you in the past. So I appreciate your advice. As always two minds work better than one.
The truth is that we didn’t have any relationships, and all these happened in couple of last weeks, in fact we’ve been just doing business, but there were the thoughts of having a relationship between us. My question is what would you do if you face with the same scenario?
I hope that you are doing great. I really want your advice on this.
Recently, I’ve signed a business contract with a woman age 37, that while doing business together, we fell for each other but she was with someone for about 3 years prior to our meeting that their relationships didn’t work out and that guy lives in Canada, they had arrangement that that guy bought his ticket to come to London to stay with her for two weeks. When I asked her to tell him to cancel his ticket, she didn’t, and now that guy is with her. She’s thinking that when he leaves we get together.
Why she didn’t cancel that meeting with that guy, if she’s thinking to be with me after he leaves?
Why do I have to get back to her? I really feel that I love her, this became like a drama movie, there are so many other nice girls around me but I really want to be with her only. In my opinion I should not get together with her for a serious relationship after the period of this two weeks but I also love her,
Please help me to find the right way, if you were watching this as a movie how you wanted that to be ended?
It's a very good question, I did google it and I share the answer with you.
So you are the knight in shining armor? The problem is, you don't have a princess to defend with. Let me share you something that is sitting right there, under your nose: "Women are everywhere and the right woman is one you can see strolling at the mall, bookstore, coffee bar, internet dating sites, work, clubs, etc." Now that you know that you realize that you don't to be somewhere special to meet the right women, the next thing your should learn is the art of the actually meeting her.
Here are the ways:
First, show confidence! You may not be aware of this but women are shyer then you are. Most women, especially those who are looking for the right man, love to be approached as well. So better get on your knees, approach someone and initiate a good conversation. Easier said that done right? One word my friend: "confidence!" Shaking knees and a mumbling mouth are things you should never have. Opportunity knocks only once so better grab it. If you see someone you like, approach her. With a right timing and proper approach, you will end up seating with her at a coffee bar all the way to a dinner table. Also, women love to see men who bear confidence. While this may not be an overnight success, you can always have your confidence developed. As they say, "right practice makes perfect", so practice, practice, and practice more. Start at your office and talk to women colleagues. Then initiate a conversation with the waitress at a restaurant or the cashier at the grocery. As you build confidence through casual conversations with people, you let go your shaking knees and mumbling mouth.
Second, master the art of conversation. Now that you have finally had the guts to approach women, you should know how to initiate a conversation. Your first words will really make the difference between a "yes" to a dinner or a something like this: "Hi, what's your name" and she replies "Hi, I'm leaving". Pick up lines like, "Gee, that's a nice set of legs, what time do they open?" or "Am I dead, Angel? Cause this must be heaven!" are something that will definitely end a conversation that hasn't begun at all. Make good at this by being sincere, being spontaneous, and not sounding so desperate. Again, it takes practice so if your first approach to a woman at the mall is not successful, do not stop trying. A good sense of humor is always a winner to good women so have them on your reserve and take them out when necessary.
An approach and conversation is not enough. You still need the follow up. So the third thing you should do is to know how to keep a woman wanting. A first date can only have a take two if the woman finds that you are interesting so keep her guessing. Do not tell everything about yourself during the first date. Not only you will dominate the whole conversation and piss your date off, you will also have nothing to say on your second date if ever it will happen. Keep her wanting like the "Arabian Nights".
Most men think that pampering their lady will keep her wanting him. The fact is, it is entirely the exact opposite. Did you ever wonder why many women love "bad boys"? It is because "bad boys" give no regard with women in the way they treat them. Women who are often pampered by men feel that they have the need to get everything they want so they are on a hot pursuit to "bad boys" who keep on playing hard to get.
Finally, meeting the right men does not end up on having the right confidence, knowing the proper way approach, and keeping women wanting because a meeting the right women may not end on a single try. You may have dated a woman and have successfully done all these 3 but still, she does not fit to the definition of "the one" for you. Meeting the right woman is a never-ending process until you are finally convinced that she is "the one".
I’m talking to who is going to be my partner. Please make up your mind come to live in London with me, if not I’m willing to come to live with you in PA or NY.
I know that wouldn’t be easy for you to move on especially that you’ve been together for about a year. A relationship doesn’t work only from your side, your partner should want you as much as you want her and if she’s doesn’t want you, ask her why? If she answers you why, then you can make some changes about you and get back with her. If she even doesn’t answer you why, she’s not a logical person and that’s the best that you don’t waste your time and to move on.
Hope you are doing well and everything’s good with you. I just wanted to thank you because that you’ve posted this because I already became more self discipline beside I want to thank you because of this thread that you had created because that helped me a lot to get into serious relationships, all the best
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Night night Hugzz & Kissez