i believe it. though scammers are here and there, but i still believe in true love does exist, on-line or off-line, if only the 2 are attracted to eachother, and show the genuine self to eachother...
If I think the person is not the type I'm looking for, I'd rather no bother him, and even no response to his message. But it doesn't mean I dislike him, I just don't want waste eachother's time, as I'm looking for marriage, instead of any other relationships. I believe fate and chemical attractive to each other. Also I'd prefer those guys who don't interest me do the same way to me, which is better than we wasted time on the wrong ones and finally found it's totally wrong or met the scammers.
though i'm almost a new member of CS, but i still feel very sad about this old unknown friend (Detente)'s gone. Let's all cherish what we have now and future. Take care. Detente, Phil, we'll remember you.
RE: getting older
getting older is not a barrier, the most concern is not getting older ALONE......