Long Distance relationships (91)
Are all those long distance relationships worth the wait?I have to say mabey depends on the situation.[/quote
hello again
been through it...
its tough..and you really have to be committed..
but in the end one will have to be serious about relocating..
if not it will never work going back and forth
hello again
been through it...
its tough..and you really have to be committed..
but in the end one will have to be serious about relocating..
if not it will never work going back and forth
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not for it..
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kissmedeeply: Are all those long distance relationships worth the wait?I have to say mabey depends on the situation.[/quote
hello again
been through it...
its tough..and you really have to be committed..
but in the end one will have to be serious about relocating..
if not it will never work going back and forth
I completely agree with that.hello again
been through it...
its tough..and you really have to be committed..
but in the end one will have to be serious about relocating..
if not it will never work going back and forth
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Tater: not for it..
why is that tater?
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loverboy690: Are all those long distance relationships worth the wait?I have to say mabey depends on the situation.
Long distance relationships are not for me but to each their own.
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When I joined CS, I had no thoughts of looking for a LDR. Then I clicked on Forums and started posting and reading around, and I saw people for whom it had worked, but I still had no intention of starting a LDR. I had met enough scammers prior to joining here to feel I'd never be able to trust that someone who lived far away, and whose face I could not see in person soon, was real. Eventually, I started one with someone close enough to me to feel that we would be able to meet in person enough to make it work, and found that the reality was I'd been played. I decided I wouldn't be able to handle the thought of a LDR again...trust would just always be an issue. Not a lack of faith in the person's fidelity, necessarily, but in their being real...even if I knew them from Forums. Only friendships would be possible...my heart wouldn't trust like that again.
Yeah...well, Fate stepped in there. A wonderful man is now in my life and in my heart who had two strikes against him...distance, and being a Scorpio. Many of you have seen me say that after divorcing two of those, I'd never date one again. OUCH. Fate bit me in the butt. We're arranging our first meeting for as soon as possible, but even now I trust that he is really who he is on here and on the phone, and I have no hesitations or doubts about this relationship.
So, I am now all for encouraging people to remain open to possibilities that you never thought you could, and not considering distance to be an obstacle. For us, we already know the distance between us will not remain forever. We have already figured out our solution, it's just a matter of time. Until then, we'll see each other as often as possible, and deal with the separations the way we are now...with frequent daily contact on IM, emails, and phone...and playing together in forums.
Never say never, Fate will laugh and then bite you in the butt. The glory of that is, it's a love bite, so it doesn't hurt quite so much.
Yeah...well, Fate stepped in there. A wonderful man is now in my life and in my heart who had two strikes against him...distance, and being a Scorpio. Many of you have seen me say that after divorcing two of those, I'd never date one again. OUCH. Fate bit me in the butt. We're arranging our first meeting for as soon as possible, but even now I trust that he is really who he is on here and on the phone, and I have no hesitations or doubts about this relationship. So, I am now all for encouraging people to remain open to possibilities that you never thought you could, and not considering distance to be an obstacle. For us, we already know the distance between us will not remain forever. We have already figured out our solution, it's just a matter of time. Until then, we'll see each other as often as possible, and deal with the separations the way we are now...with frequent daily contact on IM, emails, and phone...and playing together in forums.
Never say never, Fate will laugh and then bite you in the butt. The glory of that is, it's a love bite, so it doesn't hurt quite so much. ------ This poll is Archived ------
I'm for it with the right one.
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gypsykisses: I'm for it with the right one.
I am against it, with the wrong one..
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"I was chatting with a dear,sweet guy recently;we hit it off
right from the very beginning.But,the distance played a
huge role in the relationship,a negative role.
You just never know how things will turn out.
By that I mean..never give up on love,for love does
have a way of making things all better again..despite
the distance.So,go the distance....for love."
right from the very beginning.But,the distance played a
huge role in the relationship,a negative role.
You just never know how things will turn out.
By that I mean..never give up on love,for love does
have a way of making things all better again..despite
the distance.So,go the distance....for love."
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Polarbutterfly: "I was chatting with a dear,sweet guy recently;we hit it off
right from the very beginning.But,the distance played a
huge role in the relationship,a negative role.
You just never know how things will turn out.
By that I mean..never give up on love,for love does
have a way of making things all better again..despite
the distance.So,go the distance....for love."
in a relationship everything plays a roleright from the very beginning.But,the distance played a
huge role in the relationship,a negative role.
You just never know how things will turn out.
By that I mean..never give up on love,for love does
have a way of making things all better again..despite
the distance.So,go the distance....for love."
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loverboy690: in a relationship everything plays a role
"Trust me,in my past relationship,
the distance was the only problem."
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Polarbutterfly: "Trust me,in my past relationship,
the distance was the only problem."
I beleive you I just mean there is always something some where and how you deal with it is how you get your out come.the distance was the only problem."
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loverboy690: I beleive you I just mean there is always something some where and how you deal with it is how you get your out come.
"Well than,could it have been love?I feel that it was
and,he did too.So,if we did love eachother why are
we apart..??I guess that question will never get to
be answered...we don't talk to eachother anymore,sadly.
Just another day..life goes on......".
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Depends on the 2 involved as to if it will work or not.
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The minute you put the words 'Long distance' in front of the word relationship, there will be a problem.
Power of suggestion and all of that.
Not easy to deal with at all.
Power of suggestion and all of that.
Not easy to deal with at all.
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loverboy690: Are all those long distance relationships worth the wait?I have to say mabey depends on the situation.
If u feel he is or she is u wait him/her for long time is u half u go for u half to the end of the world if is u true love.------ This poll is Archived ------
i know it can work, i met my last year and were engaged now, she'l be getting on a plane tonight to come and see me,
just so long as at the beginning of the relationship u talk about relocating and who will do what and come to an agreement, be4 the relationship becomes bigger and your both stumped as in what u will do do then it can work
just so long as at the beginning of the relationship u talk about relocating and who will do what and come to an agreement, be4 the relationship becomes bigger and your both stumped as in what u will do do then it can work
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I think anything's possible if you want it badly enough. You both have to be trusting & determined, it can work. I agree with chriss about talking about who will relocate & such. As the saying goes... love knows no boundaries.
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broncos: Believe me, they don't work!! I was in one for almost two years, Jersey to Rhode Island. I would never do another.
Sorry to be smiling in your case, but your mileage is minimal.
The truth is, anything is possible, if the effort and enthusiasm is there, especially with air travel and accomodation being so much accessible nowadays.
I have had three long distance relationships, all beautiful in their unique ways and would do it again in a heartbeat, if it kicked my heart to beat.........
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depends on how long your preperd to have the long distance relationship for,
were already making arangments so are relationship isnt long distant,i meen if none of us wouldnt be preperd to move then it would be an issue and wouldnt work..
but if u have one knowing that u will be living together at the end of it then i cant see any reason it woldnt work,
many will fail, but a few will suceed,
and why cant i spel
were already making arangments so are relationship isnt long distant,i meen if none of us wouldnt be preperd to move then it would be an issue
and wouldnt work..but if u have one knowing that u will be living together at the end of it then i cant see any reason it woldnt work,
many will fail, but a few will suceed,
and why cant i spel
broncos: Believe me, they don't work!! I was in one for almost two years, Jersey to Rhode Island. I would never do another.
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"Things does have a way of working itself out.
JB and I are planning to meet next week.
He works a shift of two weeks on,two weeks off.
So,that in itself is something to work around.
But,with persistance and patience,we'll make it work.And,although we don't live a great distance
away from eachother,it sure feels live we're
million miles away."
JB and I are planning to meet next week.
He works a shift of two weeks on,two weeks off.
So,that in itself is something to work around.
But,with persistance and patience,we'll make it work.And,although we don't live a great distance
away from eachother,it sure feels live we're
million miles away."
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druidess6308: When I joined CS, I had no thoughts of looking for a LDR. Then I clicked on Forums and started posting and reading around, and I saw people for whom it had worked, but I still had no intention of starting a LDR. I had met enough scammers prior to joining here to feel I'd never be able to trust that someone who lived far away, and whose face I could not see in person soon, was real. Eventually, I started one with someone close enough to me to feel that we would be able to meet in person enough to make it work, and found that the reality was I'd been played. I decided I wouldn't be able to handle the thought of a LDR again...trust would just always be an issue. Not a lack of faith in the person's fidelity, necessarily, but in their being real...even if I knew them from Forums. Only friendships would be possible...my heart wouldn't trust like that again.
Yeah...well, Fate stepped in there. A wonderful man is now in my life and in my heart who had two strikes against him...distance, and being a Scorpio. Many of you have seen me say that after divorcing two of those, I'd never date one again. OUCH. Fate bit me in the butt. We're arranging our first meeting for as soon as possible, but even now I trust that he is really who he is on here and on the phone, and I have no hesitations or doubts about this relationship.
So, I am now all for encouraging people to remain open to possibilities that you never thought you could, and not considering distance to be an obstacle. For us, we already know the distance between us will not remain forever. We have already figured out our solution, it's just a matter of time. Until then, we'll see each other as often as possible, and deal with the separations the way we are now...with frequent daily contact on IM, emails, and phone...and playing together in forums.
Never say never, Fate will laugh and then bite you in the butt. The glory of that is, it's a love bite, so it doesn't hurt quite so much.
Yeah...well, Fate stepped in there. A wonderful man is now in my life and in my heart who had two strikes against him...distance, and being a Scorpio. Many of you have seen me say that after divorcing two of those, I'd never date one again. OUCH. Fate bit me in the butt. We're arranging our first meeting for as soon as possible, but even now I trust that he is really who he is on here and on the phone, and I have no hesitations or doubts about this relationship.
So, I am now all for encouraging people to remain open to possibilities that you never thought you could, and not considering distance to be an obstacle. For us, we already know the distance between us will not remain forever. We have already figured out our solution, it's just a matter of time. Until then, we'll see each other as often as possible, and deal with the separations the way we are now...with frequent daily contact on IM, emails, and phone...and playing together in forums.
Never say never, Fate will laugh and then bite you in the butt. The glory of that is, it's a love bite, so it doesn't hurt quite so much.
I'll add; Don't ever say you are not going to get involved in a LTR. I'm coming out of a bad marriage and I swore I was not going to get involved with anyone for a long time, if ever. I completely put it out of my mind, until I clicked on her profile. I had the strongest urge to jump into her picture. I fought it. But, I keep being drawn to her profile and I loved what I was hearing from her in her posts. Then one day we had a funny exchange, and she stole my heart. So, don't give up searching, and never, never say never. Cupid has an odd sense of humor, and a very good aim. I truly love you Dru.
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broncos: Believe me, they don't work!! I was in one for almost two years, Jersey to Rhode Island. I would never do another.
They do work..try over 1500 miles
North carolina to Canada..
It take alot of work and determination...but it does work
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I would give it a try, if the other person was game and I had feelings for them. I believe if two people want something bad enough it can work.
One of the two wuld have to relocate, but I am sure it can be worked out. Or maybe they can both move together in the middle.
One of the two wuld have to relocate, but I am sure it can be worked out. Or maybe they can both move together in the middle.
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If it's meant to be, it will be. And patience is certainly a virtue! 
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sweetowen: If it's meant to be, it will be. And patience is certainly a virtue!
.....and "I'll be waiting for you"......
Sounds like a song I wrote once...
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