truladee Forum Posts (19)

RE: name 3 things

I love this thread!!!

My sons

My home

Freedom

Blessings all around!

RE: The two word add on game....

Shoulder Rub.... (Yea)

RE: Broadway Chorus

Oh my goodness yes I have! I haven't for a while, but I would love to get back into it again. I used to sing and dance- and I think it was great excercise and fun! Have you done anything recently? Theatre can be a great oulet!

RE: Joking vs. Being Intentionally Mean Spirited

I think it's most important to think deeply about your true intentions. There are definately relationships where you can say some pretty terrible things, and both know that it was meant in fun and jest. However, if there's even a hint of frustration between the two of you, or if you dont' know the person very well, I think it's best to err on the kind side.
In short- I think it goes like this: Know who you are dealing with and what their sense of humor (or lack thereof) is like....
Smiles!:wine:

RE: Evolution Vs Creation

Oh I really didn't take it personally per se (though youre so sweet to say it wasn't against me in particular)--- I just really wanted to express to you that there are many Christians (or people of any given religeon) who are confident in thier beliefs- but not arrogant. I think that if people really believe in something it's natural for them to share that, and try to encourage others to take a look at it too.... However, it's not cool to harass people with religeous beliefs, and I'm thinking that maybe people had tried to shove it down your throat. I feel bad when people do that, because I know how much of a turn off that is. The more pushy they get, the less you would want to listen. I tend to personally take a really respectful and laid back attitude toward it.... I have beliefs, and I have certain things I continue to question and explore, and I even feel good about that. I am happy to share my beliefs with others, and feel like it's the right thing to do so- however- gently.
I agree that you have the right to make up your own mind regarding God. You have to have your own values and beliefs. I guess my advice would just be to think about it, especially in the scheme of this amazing world we live in----even if you just take the time to really think through the whole begining of time thing, and the technicalities of this earth- and wonder if there is God- who could have created it. Forget about what others have told you to believe- and decide. Of course at the end of the day, only YOU can make up your mind about that for yourself....

RE: Evolution Vs Creation

Well, to the "Keeping an open mind because we aren't arrogant enough to know that we have all the answers", I will simply say this- I'm really not arrogant. It's better when you are discussing a topic from insulting people- and saying that people who are confident in thier beliefs is arrogant, isn't really necessarily true. There is a sincere difference between arrogance and confidence, and I hope you can open your mind to that, so you don't view people who have beliefs in that way.
I would encourage you to look into it more yourself- for yourself. It woud be nice if one day you could have a peaceful confidence and contentment in your own beliefs...it's a great feeling....Best wishes on your journey--

RE: Pic or no Pic? - would you reply to an email from someone with no profile picture?

Thats a good point- just because someone post a picture doesn't mean it's really a picture of them.... I would encourage people to be open to people who do no offer pictures. I have met two men online who didn't post a picture. Instead they did what I do- get to know the person a bit first, and then offer one. I was not dissapointed either time, and ended up with some fun dates and a couple new friends. I have been judged by my looks my entire life. It usually works to my advantage- but honestly, I would MUCH prefer a man who has never seen me to be interested in ME, and then later see this body I walk around in. I love taking care of my body, but I just feel confident enough in who I am as a person that I feel that should be the focus.

RE: Evolution Vs Creation

Have you guys been reading what this woman has to say? I think it's sometimes easy to wisk over a topic that we know little about. Some people have said that they believe religeon is thier own personal decision- and I couldnt agree more. In fact, most Christians would agree to that a well. However- for those of you who do not believe in God, or any particular God, I just want to take a minute and look at it in a new way. Let's say I went to a restraunt, and it was great.... the food, the service, the atmosphere- it was all terrific!!! Now, the next day I'm talking with friends, and I will probably want to encourage them to go to this restraunt---- I gained an enormous amount of joy from it, and I would like them to share in that joy as well. I have gained knowledge, and am looking to share it. Well, enormously simplified, this is how many people feel about thier reliegeon. If I truly believe in God, wouldn't I want to share that with people? To deny that people should talk about thier religeon, or even encourage others to consider it, is not realistic at all. Most of us wish to share ourselves (isn't that what these polls and forums are all about). Reliegeon is certainly a part of that.
Now, I have looked at many religeons, and I also believe we should all respect each other. Pay attention though- I have searched out other religeons and have firmly planted myself back in line with Christianity. Although I believe in understanding and respecting other people's beliefs, I do also think we need to be in search of our own belief- one that we can share peacefully and joyfully with the people in our lives. Searching requires action. You can't search for something wthout putting effort into it. Searching for God is an enormous resposibility, since belief in God points us down a certain path if we are to sincerely desire to lead a life that follows his example. So I guess simply stated- Go search. Don't just take my word for it- look into your own heart, and history, and faith, and find something that you can really believe in. Take an active role in your own belief system. Then, you should peacefully share that knowledge with others, enouraging them in thier search as well.

RE: Evolution Vs Creation

Wow---Well said!!!

RE: why do people make profiles without a photo uploaded?

Honestly, I think you should be careful about that. I have met two men who I enjoyed quite a bit who hadn't put thier pictures up. I would just not rule it out....You could end up meeting someone great!

RE: Evolution Vs Creation

Well, I think it's true-and maybe some evolution believers may not be aware- but there are many views of creation...there's the 7 days is 7 days belief....and there are others as well... At the end of the day, science believe it or not can support either belief. Each persons view of God will play the main role in thier belief about creation or evolution. I encourage you to be open about creation....

RE: Evolution Vs Creation

Actually, I believe it was. As I mentioned things do evolve- we continue to see that. However, the process of evolution is a natural process that things have to respond to the environment...and changes within it. I think that sometimes people think that people who believe in creation do not believe in evolution. That's not necessarily the case. Though we believe and acknwledge that things do evolve, I anyway believe that God created life in that way.... It's prety amazing actually!

RE: Evolution Vs Creation

Okay, so if we are here from a big bang....how did the big bang occur? Face it- there is God. He created this absolutely beautiful planet, and us as well. Things do evolve- a simple example of that is infections, which evolve and become more difficult to treat. However- in the beginning, God created the earth- and the galaxy for that sake.

RE: LIFE PARTNER OR FRIEND OR LOVER

I couldn't agree more! I think those are ALL a part of an amazing relationship! Yes by the way I have imagined, and even seen it before!

RE: KNOCK, KNOCK

LOL!

RE: why do people make profiles without a photo uploaded?

I have a few reasons why I don't post my picture. First, I am currently separated. I don't like people to know about my personal life, and just feel that the world is too small. I don't want people to see me here and then spread gossip. Secondly, I don't want to feel like a piece of meat. I do actually think I'm attractive but don't want guys to contact me just because of that. It means alot to me for a man to show interest in my words, and then later on see what my face and body looks like. I want to be appreciated for ME first.

RE: Just for Cooks...no one else!!

You go girl!!!! Good job for perservering!!!

RE: Pic or no Pic? - would you reply to an email from someone with no profile picture?

Okay, well here's the thing---I don't have my picture posted, and I honestly am pretty adorable lol! Anyway, I personally think it's better not to post a picture. I think you should try to talk with the guy and ask him what he looks like and why he didn't post his picture. After a few conversations, he should be willing to email you a picture of himself. If you get something rude- drop him ---unless of course that's what you're looking for!
Best wishes!!!

RE: Would you wrestle in mud or jello

That's hilarious!!! I love that question! Jello definately- it would smell nice, and for other reasons too... Come on it would be soooo fun!!! But really- can you even imagine how much jello you would need?!?!?!?