THANK YOU TO EVERYONE FOR REPLYING BACK TO ME ,THANK YOU FOR YOUR THOUGHTS AND ADVICE .I HOPE EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU FIND THE PERSON THAT WILL MAKE YOU ALL HAPPY .TAKECAREXX
thank you for your reply ..i am not the sort of person that would blackmail to get what i want ..i have decided to move on with my life ..thank u for replying back and thank u for your comment on thinking i was a wonerful person ...give me a bit of a esteme boost lol ..thank u once again .and good luck finding what u r looking for x
my friends think the same thing as you .she was known for seeing different men but blamed it on her being an alcolholic..then moving in to a house a making a new life with this man and walking away from her sons and husband ..i just don,t understand why he would let her treat him this way ??? anyway i am moving on with my life ..thank u for your reply
no its not you and plz don,t give up ..its just miss right hasn,t came your way just yet ..and if u give up now you might not ever find her after waiting 3yrs she shouldn,t be to away from being in your future ..goodluck and keep your head up and keep smiling xx
HI EVERYONE...PLEASE REPLY BACK WITH WHAT YOU THINK ...I AM DIVORCED 3 YRS AND ABOUT 6MTHS AGO I GOT TALKING TO A MAN WHEN I WAS OUT WITH FRIENDS .HE WAS IN A REALLY BAD STATE OF DEPRESSION AS HE WAS SEPARATED FROM HIS WIFE ..HIS WIFE HAD AN AFFAIRE WITH A MAN IN THE PLACE SHE WORKED SHE WAS ALSO AN ALCOHOLIC ..ONE NIGHT HER MOBILE WENT OFF TO SAY SHE HAD A TXT MESSAGE .SHE WAS COMPLETELY DRUNK AND PAST OUT ASLEEP .HE LEFTED THE PHONE TO READ THE MESSAGE ..SHE HAD MADE PLANS TO GET A HOUSE AND SET UP A HOME WITH THIS MAN AND CALLED HIM HER SOULMATE ...THE NEXT MORNING TO SAID TO HER ABOUT THE MESSAGE AND SHE PRETENDED SHE NEW NOTHING ABOUT WHAT THE TXT SAID ....ANYWAY WHILE I GOT TAKING TO THIS MAN HE COULDN,T SEE ANY WAY OUT AND I TRIED TO TELL HER THERE WAS LIFE AFTER SEPARATION WE BECAME FRIENDS AND I HELPED HIM WITH HIS DEPRESSION THEN WE GOT SO CLOSE TO EACH OTHER WE WENT INTO A RELATIONSHIP .BUT I MADE IT CLEAR TO HIM IF HE THOUGHT HIM AND HIS WIFE COULD MAKE AGO OF THINGS TO GO BACK AND HE SAID NO SHE DOESN,T WANT ME AND THE MARRIAGE IS OVER .I TOLD HIM THIS AS I COULDN,T FACE GETTING HURT AFTER A BAD MARRIAGE.HE WAS SO SURE HE WASN,T GOING BACK TO HER .THATS WHEN WE GOT REALLY CLOSE AND HAD A REALLY GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH EACHOTHER.WE STOOD BY EACH OTHER ..THEN ONE NIGHT HE CAME TO ME SAYING SHE WANTED TO COME BACK TO HIM AND HER 3 SONS WHO ARE 20 18 AND15 YRS OLD ..HE SAID IN WAS IN LOVE WITH ME BUT LOVED HER AND HE WANTED TO GO BACK TO HER AS SHE WAS ASKING FOR HELP WITH HER ALCOHOL PROBLEM AND THAT SHE LOVED HIM ..FROM THOSE WORDS CAME OUT OF HIS MOUTH MY WORLD JUST FELT IT WAS FALLING APART ..I KNEWAT THE MOMENT HE WASLEAVING ME TO TRY AND MAKE AGO WITH THINGS WITH HIS WIFE ITS A MONTH SINCE WE SPLIT AND I FEEL AS IF I AM NEVER GOING TO GET OVER HIM AS I FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM .HE DOESN,T WANT ME IN HIS LIFE ANYMORE AND SAID HE CAN,T BE FRIENDS WITH ME AS IT WOULDN,T BE FAIR ON HIS WIFE HIM OR ME ..I JUST FEEL USED AND LOST AND VERY HURT ...TELL ME YOUR THOUGHTS ON THIS
TH THANK YOU FOR YOUR KIND WORDS .I DID ASK HIM IF THEREWASANY CHANCE FOR HISMARRIAGE TO GET BACK ON TRACK TO GO BACK AND TRY TO MAKE IT WORK WITH HIS WIFE ..THATS WHEN HE TOLD ME SHE DIDN,T WANT HIM AND HIS MARRIAGE WAS OVER AND ME BEING NIAVE BELEIVED HIM ..I KNOWTIMEWILL HEEL I JUST GOT OVER THE LOSS OF MY 18YR MARRIAGE TO GET HURT AGAIN ,,I WILL BE MORECARFUL WITH WHO I FALL IN LOVE WITH IN FUTURE .THANK U AND U ALSO TAKECARE BYE
HI AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR KIND WORDS ..YES I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT I DON,T THINK HE BROKE THE TIES WITH HIS MARRIAGE AND YES IT IS AN EXPERIANCE I HAVE LEARNED ..I JUST WISH HE HAD OF TOLD ME HOW HE FELT ABOUT HIS WIFE BEFORE HE WENT INTO THE RELATIONSHIP WITH ME AND BROKE MY HEART ..I THINK WHAT HE DONE TO ME WASVERY SELFISH ..TAKECARE AND THANK YOU FOR TAKING TIME TO REPLY BACK TO ME
HI ..PLEASE REPLY WITH YOUR THOUGHTS ON MY SITUATION ............I MET A MAN WHEN I WAS OUT WITH FRIENDS WHO WAS GOING THROUGH A REALLY HARD TIME AS HE FOUND OUT HIS WIFE HAD AN AFFAIRE WITH A MAN SHE WORKED WITH ...SHE LEFT HIM TO MAKE A HOME WITH THE MAN SHE HAD THE AFFAIRE WITH AND LEFT HER 3 SONS BEHIND ALSO .WHEN I MET THIS MAN HE WAS IN A VERY BAD STATE OF DEPRESSION AND AFTER GOING THROUGH DIVORCE MYSELF I TRIED TO SHOW HIM THERE WAS LIFE AFTER SEPARATION .WE BECAME FRIENDS AND GOT VERY CLOSE TO EACH OTHER AND WENT INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH EACHOTHER .HE USED TO SEE ME EVERYDAY AND TELL ME EVERYDAY HE LOVED ME AND HE WOULD NEVER HURT ME OR LEAVE ME HE EVAN HAD MY DAUGHTER BELIEVING HE WOULD NEVER HURT ME AS SHE SEEN HER FATHER HURT ME .I STOOD BY THIS MAN AND FELL VERY DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH HIM AND I THOUGHT HE FELT THE SAME WAY ABOUT ME ..UNTIL HE CAME TO ME ONE NIGHT AND TOLD ME HIS WIFE WANTED TO COME HOME TO HIM AND HER 3 SONS WHO WERE 20 18 AND15 YRS OLD .HE SAID HE WAS TAKING HER BACK AS SHE NEEDED HELP WITH HER ALCOHOL PROBLEM AND WAS STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM ..THIS WAS 7MTHS AFTER SHE LEFT HIM ..I JUST FELT MY WORLD FALL APART ..I DID SAY TO HIM IF THERE WAS ANY CHANCE OF HIM GETTING BACK WITH HIS WIFE .HE COULDN,T COME INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME AS I DIDN,T WANT TO GET HURT AND TO GO AND TRY TO MAKE HIS MARRIAGE WORK..THISWASAT THESTART BEFORE I WOULD GO INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM.. HIS WORDS TO ME WERE SHE DOESN,T WANT ME AND ME AND HER ARE OVER AND SO IS THE MARRIAGE THATS WHY I LET MY SELF FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM ...I AM FINDING IT SO HARD TO GET OVER HIM AND I AM STILL VERY MUCH IN LOVE WITH HIM .HE DOESN,T WANT ME IN HIS LIFE ANYMORE NOT EVAN AS A FRIEND ..I JUST FEEL BROKEN HEARTEDAND USED ....PLZ TELL MEWHAT U THINK
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anyway i am moving on with my life ..thank u for your reply 
DID HE EVER REALLY LOVE ME ;-[
THANK YOU TO EVERYONE FOR REPLYING BACK TO ME ,THANK YOU FOR YOUR THOUGHTS AND ADVICE .I HOPE EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU FIND THE PERSON THAT WILL MAKE YOU ALL HAPPY .TAKECAREXX