yes, I know all too well where you are at, and have used your terrific mind enough wouldn't want to suck it dry...although on a few occassions we've made each other downright stupid, haven't we?
he's already in a relationship that's failing or has failed, the last thing he needs to do is "test the waters" at this point. There are more important things he needs to be doing at this point to make himself a better person and it doesn't involve chasing women.
at least a YEAR after he's divorced. There's a certain grieving process that one needs to go through, then a self discovery period and depending on the person, sometimes it takes longer than that.
Separated = Married ..... no difference, they are still bound to another, no matter what they say.
RE: Say something nice....to just anybody....BE NICEEEEEEEE...
my pleasure J