Ladies: Would you date a "separated" man or would you wait until the divorce is finalised? (215)
g33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Postsis it ok to date a separated man or are you better off waiting until the divorce is finalised?
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Really wouldn't know much of the topic.......
.....but i do prefer married ladies......
....they tend to keep their mouth shut about the whole thing.....
....you don't have to take them out as it's safer for them that way....
....and they don't take gifts back home with them either.....just in case....
.....but i do prefer married ladies......
....they tend to keep their mouth shut about the whole thing.....
....you don't have to take them out as it's safer for them that way....
....and they don't take gifts back home with them either.....just in case....
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gozoman2: Really wouldn't know much of the topic.......
.....but i do prefer married ladies......
....they tend to keep their mouth shut about the whole thing.....
....you don't have to take them out as it's safer for them that way....
....and they don't take gifts back home with them either.....just in case....
.....but i do prefer married ladies......
....they tend to keep their mouth shut about the whole thing.....
....you don't have to take them out as it's safer for them that way....
....and they don't take gifts back home with them either.....just in case....
But most will take your cash
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Dont wait for a damn thing
Those guys are full of crock
Those guys are full of crock
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g33kgurl: is it ok to date a separated man or are you better off waiting until the divorce is finalised?
It depends on who filed for divorce. If she did you'll be dating a nutter, some like that but your mileage may vary. If he filed it's a coin flip, heads he's ok, tales...he's a nutter, the randomness there adds a whole new level of...adventure.
Good luck.
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i think a man should be legally divorced before ever thinking of dating again.its like trying to kill two birds with one stone,just not possible
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rasgumby: But most will take your cash
.....ah yes.....there is always a price tag in there somewhere.....
No but seriously.....to answer the thread question.......
I see nothing wrong with dating somebody who is still just separated.....not fully divorced I mean.....
however this may also have it's negatives.....most people are still undergoing rejection syndromes after separation......consciously or subconsciously....and it takes a few years to dissipate.....
....so I would proceed with caution......would not want to end being a springboard for somebody's else hurt egos.....
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seperated people are not ready to date, they have issues to solve, family, divorce. their minds are elsewhere,and are very confused, they are hurting and very vulnurble about life, goals, etc. i allways stayed away,because i knew what i went through.
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gozoman2: .....ah yes.....there is always a price tag in there somewhere.....
No but seriously.....to answer the thread question.......
I see nothing wrong with dating somebody who is still just separated.....not fully divorced I mean.....
however this may also have it's negatives.....most people are still undergoing rejection syndromes after separation......consciously or subconsciously....and it takes a few years to dissipate.....
....so I would proceed with caution......would not want to end being a springboard for somebody's else hurt egos.....
thats because you want to take advantage of a weak person, to get laidNo but seriously.....to answer the thread question.......
I see nothing wrong with dating somebody who is still just separated.....not fully divorced I mean.....
however this may also have it's negatives.....most people are still undergoing rejection syndromes after separation......consciously or subconsciously....and it takes a few years to dissipate.....
....so I would proceed with caution......would not want to end being a springboard for somebody's else hurt egos.....
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tumtum52: seperated people are not ready to date, they have issues to solve, family, divorce. their minds are elsewhere,and are very confused, they are hurting and very vulnurble about life, goals, etc. i allways stayed away,because i knew what i went through.
Does how long they've been separated not come
into the equation?
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I would but only if he knew he wasnt going back to his wife
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If only separated, there is a good chance that they are just going to use you, then run back home..IMHO
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sasseez: I would but only if he knew he wasnt going back to his wife
Isn't that what they all say
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bodleing: Does how long they've been separated not come
into the equation?
does it matter?if hes been seperated for a long time,why still hang on to an "invisible"marriage instead of letting go and be done with,and then move on.its either you are in,or you are out.into the equation?
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rasgumby: Isn't that what they all say
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abbiye: i think a man should be legally divorced before ever thinking of dating again.its like trying to kill two birds with one stone,just not possible
yeah.. i thought that was the case.. but being single all my life.. separated is not something i come across too often... i just assumed it is equal to divorce! agh! stooopid!!
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tumtum52: if your going out with a seperated, be readt to spend holidays alone
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sasseez: well maybe But i would make sure he had been seperated a long long time
thanks sass, but how long is a long long time?
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