Ladies: Would you date a "separated" man or would you wait until the divorce is finalised? (215)
morgan5: love you vonny and yes ir works both ways
You to hun,
So do you think that a peson who is seperated for a long time but not divorced is just playing games?
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nothernstar: Yes OK You Keep think that 70% your not Irish so deal with IT.Hey I Love the Irish Their My Sister and Brothers.
Just like The British and their 90%.
I`m having a hard time dealing with that
Just like The British and their 90%.
I`m having a hard time dealing with that
lol
I am 100% Irish you deal with that.
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vonney: You to hun,So do you think that a peson who is seperated for a long time but not divorced is just playing games?
NO i think everyones circumstances are different, my ex moved abroad and divorce papers could not be served for 4 yrs . was i s'posed to be a nun ????------ This thread is Archived ------
morgan5: NO i think everyones circumstances are different, my ex moved abroad and divorce papers could not be served for 4 yrs . was i s'posed to be a nun ????
But thats what I dont understand with this thread, Morgan..
A lot of women have posted that they wouldnt date a man until the man is separated. Why is it different for women?? Sorry, I dont understand!!
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petalbabe: But thats what I dont understand with this thread, Morgan..
A lot of women have posted that they wouldnt date a man until the man is separated. Why is it different for women?? Sorry, I dont understand!!
A lot of women have posted that they wouldnt date a man until the man is separated. Why is it different for women?? Sorry, I dont understand!!
Sorry, typo - meant to say DIVORCED..
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morgan5: NO i think everyones circumstances are different, my ex moved abroad and divorce papers could not be served for 4 yrs . was i s'posed to be a nun ????
YES
lol
Only kidding hun you know that. Though some people think so and thats their right, I just wish that they would see things from everyones point of view.
I am glad that we have to wait a number of years here and would hate it to get like some Countries where you can divorce after your first row.
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vonney: You mean that Irish people are 70% Spanish??
Hahahahahaha....
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rasgumby: But most will take your cash
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....' Brilliant Reply'...Whoa...'The White European America Sisterhood Wolf pack' won't like you, for saying that.....Tut..Tut..You have been very insensitive to there delicate Feelings....But what you said is so true..... 
J.D
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petalbabe: But thats what I dont understand with this thread, Morgan..
A lot of women have posted that they wouldnt date a man until the man is separated. Why is it different for women?? Sorry, I dont understand!!
I don't think it is, thats why there is now straightforward answerA lot of women have posted that they wouldnt date a man until the man is separated. Why is it different for women?? Sorry, I dont understand!!
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morgan5: I don't think it is, thats why there is now straightforward answer
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What if he is just mentally separated while he is making up his mind? What if she separated him from his 'stuff'--money, house, cars, children, etc. What if he is separated from his mind! How do you find out what type of separation he is experiencing? How long are you willing to invest your time to find these things out?
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Big_John: What if he is just mentally separated while he is making up his mind? What if she separated him from his 'stuff'--money, house, cars, children, etc. What if he is separated from his mind! How do you find out what type of separation he is experiencing? How long are you willing to invest your time to find these things out?
And if my Aunt had balls she would be my Uncle...
We could spend our lives saying 'what if'.
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vonney: And if my Aunt had balls she would be my Uncle... We could spend our lives saying 'what if'.
So I assume dating someone who might not be available for five years is okay with you?
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Big_John: So I assume dating someone who might not be available for five years is okay with you?
Well considering I was seperated not divorced for 11 years I would understand that these things can take time.
By available what do you mean?
Available to marry? am not interested in doing that again.
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vonney: Well considering I was seperated not divorced for 11 years I would understand that these things can take time.
By available what do you mean?
Available to marry? am not interested in doing that again.
By available what do you mean?
Available to marry? am not interested in doing that again.
I believe most of us outside of this one country that keeps posting the insane rules on divorce would not want to engage with someone while that long process is taking place.
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if i was only separated i would not date, learned the hard way. she wanted marriage and i wasn't available. so i lost her. that was over thirty years ago and i still think about her
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Big_John: I believe most of us outside of this one country that keeps posting the insane rules on divorce would not want to engage with someone while that long process is taking place.
Sorry if posting the insane rules about divorce here is annoying to people, I just felt that perhaps people should know that things are not the same in every Country.
Until approx 12 years ago divorce was not availble at all here so second realtionships without either party being divorced is not uncommon.
As I have said previously I prefer that a person has to wait this length of time rather than divorce after the first row.
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Big_John: I believe most of us outside of this one country that keeps posting the insane rules on divorce would not want to engage with someone while that long process is taking place.
....was not interested while....nor after....not intending to marry again no....
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petalbabe: No, I dont mean 4 MONTHS OF MARRIAGE, YOU DOPE!!!
I mean after 4 months of separation..
I was married for 8 years!
I mean after 4 months of separation..
I was married for 8 years!
Eight years! That's even worse than being married for four months!
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Yes OK You Keep think that
Hey I Love the Irish Their My Sister and Brothers.
Just like The British and their 90%.
I`m having a hard time dealing with that