"Remember that no matter what happens in your life, it's YOUR life, don't live through someone else because you are the most important person you'll ever know."
-That was said to me by a very nice person when I was a kid. Didn't make alot of sense to me right away. But now it does. No matter what happens in my life, I will always have myself, my thoughts, my feelings. I cannot ever get away from those, so I should really try and care about myself, as long as I live, I'll always be with me.-
Always a good choice. Dead men get rather boring after awhile. What with all the sitting on the couch, rotting, attracting flies. Add that to my list as well.
I forget that the time zones are different. It's evening here. Sun has been shining all day, only now is it thinking about settling down for the night. And my weekend agenda consists of movies and serious nap time.
Hmm, "The What I Want" thread. I want someone who looks great in a torn shirt standing on the bluffs with the wind blowing through his long hair. His cheast will heave like a bull about to charge as his eyes smolder in passion.
Or maybe not. I read that in a book somewhere. I think that might have been the picture on the cover, plus he was wearing a kilt. Kilts are hot.
It seems that the person that would mesh well with me would be someone who knows that weird humour isn't a sign of insanity, but an outlook on life. Life isn't cut and dried simple. It gets weird, it gets messy so you might as well be able to laugh.
Although... a man who can look romance novel hot while standing on a windy bluff might be nice too.
I have no insistances on what a person should or shouldn't be. If I do, that's an oopsie. But I do know, like everything in our world, the high majority of people have prefrances in who they would like to be with. Even though in the end of things, they have found the person they are most happy with doesn't match their original criteria. It's more like a wish list.
I have my own thoughts of what I want, but I know that if I got that, I would not be overjoyed. Romance novel men are just cheap words on paper, and their substance is pulp.
So no, I have no desire for someone just like me. Similar in some ways, and completely different in others. Nor do I wish for someone to be set higher then myself. Putting a person on a pedestal just makes them look down on you.
I used to look for love. Once I thought I found it under the couch cushions, turned out to be some change and the remote. It may have not be love, but it was a great night on tv, bonus, that change bought me a bag o'snackies and a soda.
Been here only since late march posted in april, this year. No dates. But not a problem for me. I find it's more entertaining to put on my superhero cape, post my comments and fly off into a wall or something.
The end desicion is yours of course. But I truly think you should walk away from that. It really sounds like a bad situation waiting to happen. If he doesn't really trust, doesn't like your life ( family ) Then what does he really like about YOU?
Don't let yourself enter into a life where you are a doormat. Love and marriage involve respect. Does he respect you? Do you him? honestly?
I don't know if I would. I haven't before, so I think I would maintain that and not get too snoopy with other peoples things. Although I might clean up a bit, so in doing that I would have to go into cupboards for the tools to do that with. But I wouldn't be opening drawers in their dresser or anything. I would be worried about finding something weird.
What really got me once was the girlfriend of my guys best friend. She would come over with her guy and when she used the bathroom, she would always open the medicine cabnit. It had a squeeky hinge so you could hear it being opened. I could understand the first time she did it. Some people are curious and I didnt have anything worth hiding. But everytime? Did she think something new and exciting would appear? I always debated on filling it with ping-pong balls for her next visit... I really should have.
Maybe some people just aren't ready to share their toys with someone who'll stick peanutbutter sandwiches into the disc-drive. Or watch Finding Nemo 8 times a day, everyday for a month?
lol Having children is a huge responsibility to many people and wanting kids may just be too much at this moment in their lives. Who knows, maybe they are just waiting for the right person to enter into their lives before they even consider breeding. Maybe they already have had their kids, who are grown, or close too, and think that's enough?
Those are just suggestions though. I really haven't a clue as to why.
I use both: a quick shower, bar soap. A hair washing leg shaving shower etc, liquid. The scents for the liquids are great. I have a raspberry chocolate scent, yummy.
prefer smooth or very little hair. Hard to snuggle with hairs tickling my nose, making me sneeze, which in turn gets spit and sneeze goo on the mans chest. Of course, he does not appreciate sneeze goo, and sits up really fast, which sends me flying backwards, cracking my head on the night table. Ending an otherwise lovely night.
Not that I know from experience, just a vivid imagination.
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RE: thoughts
"Remember that no matter what happens in your life, it's YOUR life, don't live through someone else because you are the most important person you'll ever know."-That was said to me by a very nice person when I was a kid.
Didn't make alot of sense to me right away. But now it does.
No matter what happens in my life, I will always have myself, my thoughts, my feelings. I cannot ever get away from those, so I should really try and care about myself, as long as I live, I'll always be with me.-