Fiance with problems. (26)
Hi.
Read you post again.
Do you really want to live with a guy like this ?
The choice is yours.
Take Care.
Read you post again.
Do you really want to live with a guy like this ?
The choice is yours.
Take Care.
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Indian_girl: I don't have to courage to ask my friends who may caste judgment, so I am here on a forum with mature strangers.
I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks
I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks
I think deep down inside you already know the answers. To me your relationship doesn't sound quite right; can you honestly say you're happy? Trust and accepting a partner for who he/she is, are the basis for a loving relationship. I don't think it's ever fair to throw someones past in his face; it's the present that counts and we all make mistakes and (hopefully) learn from them. Ofcourse your fiance might dislike your family; he should at least show them some common respect.
You might love him, but if you have to arrange your life all around him and you're not free in choosing your friends or seeing your family, do you really think a marriage will have a future?
Wishing you the best of luck and I hope you'll make the decision that's feels right for you; you're the only one responsible for your own happiness.
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Indian_girl: I don't have to courage to ask my friends who may caste judgment, so I am here on a forum with mature strangers.
I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks
I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks
first thin first
Wash your hands...
and then have a serious talk with that man of yours
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WhovianGeneva: Hi.
Read you post again.
Do you really want to live with a guy like this ?
The choice is yours.
Take Care.
Read you post again.
Do you really want to live with a guy like this ?
The choice is yours.
Take Care.
I agree 100% Is this really how you want to spend the rest of your life hun???
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run, the first sign of an abuser it isolation from friends and family
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sigh........I did the sit down talk thing......
I am just at the point of just sit back and do nothing!
I am just at the point of just sit back and do nothing!
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run, the first sign of an abuser it isolation from friends and family
I TRULY AGREE WITH THE ABOVE STATEMENT !
OPEN YOUR EYES
I TRULY AGREE WITH THE ABOVE STATEMENT !
OPEN YOUR EYES
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southmiami: run, the first sign of an abuser it isolation from friends and family I TRULY AGREE WITH THE ABOVE STATEMENT !OPEN YOUR EYES
oh really????
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caspatch: run, the first sign of an abuser it isolation from friends and family
...........Bingo.....The above Author is very correct...Young Lady.....Get rid of him........before your becomes a Misery..
J.D
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Boban1: first thin firstWash your hands...
and then have a serious talk with that man of yours
and then have a serious talk with that man of yours
I agree with you, except I think her hands are lovely.
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Indian_girl: I don't have to courage to ask my friends who may caste judgment, so I am here on a forum with mature strangers.
I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks
I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks
Seems like charming guy, the kind you want to spend the rest of your life with.
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The end desicion is yours of course. But I truly think you should walk away from that.
It really sounds like a bad situation waiting to happen.
If he doesn't really trust, doesn't like your life ( family ) Then what does he really like about YOU?
Don't let yourself enter into a life where you are a doormat. Love and marriage involve respect.
Does he respect you? Do you him? honestly?
It really sounds like a bad situation waiting to happen.
If he doesn't really trust, doesn't like your life ( family ) Then what does he really like about YOU?
Don't let yourself enter into a life where you are a doormat. Love and marriage involve respect.
Does he respect you? Do you him? honestly?
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Raven0: The end desicion is yours of course. But I truly think you should walk away from that.
It really sounds like a bad situation waiting to happen.
If he doesn't really trust, doesn't like your life ( family ) Then what does he really like about YOU?
Don't let yourself enter into a life where you are a doormat. Love and marriage involve respect.
Does he respect you? Do you him? honestly?
It really sounds like a bad situation waiting to happen.
If he doesn't really trust, doesn't like your life ( family ) Then what does he really like about YOU?
Don't let yourself enter into a life where you are a doormat. Love and marriage involve respect.
Does he respect you? Do you him? honestly?
THIS IS THE BAD SITUATION! IT DIDN"T EVEN WAIT TO HAPPEN
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Indian_girl: I don't have to courage to ask my friends who may caste judgment, so I am here on a forum with mature strangers.
I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks
Dump this raging control freak and don't look back! Nobody should have to deal with a person like this. He needs you, he doesn't love you. This type of person is not capable of loving anyone. He probably learned this behavior from his parents. I would be willing to bet his father was physically and verbally abusive to his mother and she accepted it which is how he learned how to act. This type behavior is passed down from one generation to the next. Do you want your male children to become wife beaters?I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks
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Indian_girl: I don't have to courage to ask my friends who may caste judgment, so I am here on a forum with mature strangers.
I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks
I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks
Wow girl
Never mind running... fly if you can
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Indian_girl: I don't have to courage to ask my friends who may caste judgment, so I am here on a forum with mature strangers.
I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks
I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks
Kick this loser to the curve.
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He already got you to drop all your old friends because he was allegedly cheated on, now wants you to drop your new friends....so he could love YOU with an open heart?
If he won't allow his heart to be hurt, Is he really in love? or managing a game.
Your gut already told your your answer. Good luck.
If he won't allow his heart to be hurt, Is he really in love? or managing a game.
Your gut already told your your answer. Good luck.
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You've been given some excellent advice. It would be in YOUR BEST INTEREST to make a change in your life. You can listen to other people's advice all day long, but it won't change anything unless YOU DECIDE to want to change your situation. Do it for yourself!
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I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too.
Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Thanks