I am not making excuses, but his previous relationship ended with the girl cheating. i understand to be cautious but not make the present person pay for the past.
I don't have to courage to ask my friends who may caste judgment, so I am here on a forum with mature strangers.
I am/ was in a relationship with some for almost 2 yrs. We got engaged on our 1 yr anniversary. Hoping our wedding would be next year. That giving us ample time almost 3 yrs to get things in order. I know the perfect relationship don't exist, however I think my situation is a bit out of the average ordinary.
My fiance has a temper and with this temper a lot of things get in our way.With this temper my past is continuously thrown in my face. The thing about me with my past, I learn from my mistakes so I will not commit them again. I have been devoted to this relationship and I have neglected my friends and never shown much interested in having some time for friends and so on. Now I have gotten some new friends and coworkers it is posing a problem among other thing sin our relationship.
Honestly, I think people should have trust and time to vent with other people. I feel I am his mother, sister, friend, punching bag, business partner and lastly lover. In addition, I live with my parents so I respect them alot. They have been involved in our relationship since sometimes I don't have anyone to turn too. Now my fiance, dislikes my family and is always saying hurtful things about them and I have put my feet down. if you want a relationship with me, you respect my family and it begins there. Am I wrong for this?What would you advise?
Two wrongs don't make a right. If you were doing your part, this would never have happened. You are 49, when will you learn at 75 on your death bed?
Life is too short, either you solider up and and commit yourself to one person or take your sorry butt and jump from bed to bed, just don't expect forgiveness.
Indian_girl Forum Posts (5)
Fiance with problems.
I am not making excuses, but his previous relationship ended with the girl cheating. i understand to be cautious but not make the present person pay for the past.