I think what she done was rude but as was said before she might not of known what to do or how to handle it.
That said I think on a coffee date the idea is that you are only meeting to see if there might be a reason to go on a "real" date. In my opinion the decision should given not on the coffee date but after when you have had a little time to think if you would like to meet again.
I would wait until the next day at least before making (announcing) a negative decision. Maybe i am wrong. I would like opinions on this approach.
This is actually something i try to live by. I am not a religious person at all but this is a great idea. Generally treat others as you would like them to treat you.
Hey maggie. I'm sure its perfectly natural to be nervous undergoing any kind of surgery so there is no point in saying don't worry. The nature of it is you will anyway. This is perfectly normal. The only thing i have done to relate to this is i had laser surgery on my eyes a couple of years ago and while it is not the same thing there is a slight risk of going blind after. In the end i was a nervous wreck although you wouldn't have known it by looking at me. (I can hide my feelings pretty well). Everything went well for me. I was very sore for about a week and had some discomfort for about 3 months but i will say now it was the best money i ever spent.
So my advise for what it is worth is go and do it if it will make you feel better in yourself. You will be nervous but this is natural. Have someone with you. Moral comfort etc.
I dont thinks its bad here at all To be honest. I did notice Biggerboy got a bit of a hammering in another post .(Which i feel he deserved). I dont think his replys did him any favours either. I didnt reply to that post as i didnt have anything witty or constructive to add.
I myself have read through many of the topice posted on here, but i have only posted on a few. I think if i have nothing amusing or topical to add then why add anything at all.
I dont see how the forums would take away from the chances of getting a date but some fear that they will not convey the message they want to when writing it down as it is not possible to give facial expression or read anothers. Therefore a person who might be quite amusing and witty in real life might come across differently online and vice versa. So for this reason i am carefull what i write as it might not hurt your chances if you clear in what you say (Say what you mean & not mean what you say) If you are taken up wrong it can be detrimental to any chance you might of had.
Now have i just blown any chance i have of a date from this rant. This remains to be seen. By the way i was considering going next Sat to Break for the Boarder meet up. I dont know how friendly you guys are yet and as id be going on my own i havnt made up my mind yet.
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It was worth it just so you could tell us. I got a good laugh out of it.