Bay, I believe both you and that female should have seen each other on web-cam before meeting each other in person, this way neither one of you wouldn’t have been disappointed. Now-aday men go for looks on a woman and vise-versa .it shouldn’t be or have to be that way, but that’s how it is, to include, age is just a number.
You did the right thing since some riverers seem to look shallow in pictures until you plung into them head first, and might not survive the plung with you poor little head.
RE: Should we teach you ?
Thing is: You can't catch a squirrel when they are flying away.