Hi Mette, You are from the home of the master of Quantum mechanics (Niels Bohr). Ok, From a guys point of view....Men hit on girls all the time and because of that fact women in general are sick of it. In retaliation they are usually rude or if they are polite they lie and say I already have a boyfriend or Hubby. Or they really are taken. Thus men are burnt out and give up after so many thousand tempts. However, A man will always appreciate a girls attempt on him.
Why is it that the guy has to initiate the first interest?
I agree.