One of my ex partners was a Phychiatristat working in a Hosp ,also she new my ex partners personaly in social circles.
I asked her once about why do some people pick partners who are different than themselves ,,then cause chaos in a relationship ,,
I was referring to some of my past partners on a personal level from the past ,,my situation was that i do drink in whats classed as socialy ,,2 partners i had were total piss heads and the drink has left them with a lot of social problems of everyday normal logical thinking {is that the rite terminology?}
So why pick me ,
it was said that some of these people pick opposites because they dont like looking at a mirror image of themselves ..
So maybe thats taught me a little of what to reject in the future ..
Unfortunately my work takes me into what is classed as a sub culture ,so maybe i need to be a little more enlightened instead of acepting some on face value ....bla bla bla
Put it all outside your house in sealed boxes ,, put a sign on it saying DO NOT TOUCH ,,believe Amigo were i come from it will be gone in seconds ,,i aint jokin
I always carry a small spare mobile fone battery with me in case i meet another woman and iff my first battery has lost its charge i can replace it with the fully charged battery to send a text to the ex to say its over ..
I am a Gentleman and always like to let them know ,in case they maybe are making my tea thinking i will be back home ..
1957 was i think the starting point {germination period} of were Rock and Roll was launched from ,, unless some on here can say different ,cant say from the gap from 1950 to 57 ,cant think myself of anything that may have been heading into that style of music in that era before 57,,..
I was one of the lucky people in the u.k that was able to listen to American Forces Radio of all the stuff played from the States as im a Brit Forces Brat and lived in Germany in the very early 60s {62/64}.No t.v. } just Radio Luxemburg and B.F.Radio transmitting u.s.music .WOW i was lucky
Also home town Liverpool i witnessed the Mersey up rising of da music ,,
? hmmm {Beatles were over in Liverpool in about 57 knocking around the local clubs , they started with Skiffle as that was the music of the day {p.s.,,i say beatles but they were the Quarrey men then Silver Beatles and a different line up ie Pete Best etc }also a different manager untill Brian Epstien come along etc etc ..
But a lot of bands over here wanted a new type of music and sounds from the States were drifting over and yes your right The Buddy Holly sound was in that mix from the States .
One of the things that Leadbelly quoted once {AND IM NOT TO MUCH IN AGREEMENT WITH,AS IM VERY MUCH INTO u.s roots music
He said about the Rolling Stones {who i was a big fan of}he said
"That it took 5 White men to take our music across the Ocean to the u.k and bring it back to the States to show us what we had in our own back yard "
Maybe leadbelly was just beingnice or something to the u.k or the Stones but to the Stones never come close to what Allan Lomax had discovered with blues players from the States
Hi ,i think Buddy Holly was one of the first around with his brand of rock n roll but his short life didnt give him the opportunity to expand on the little he did ,,though i still have him in my selective part of my music albums
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RE: Do yoyou think opposites attract because we can't bare to look at our own flaws
One of my ex partners was a Phychiatristat working in a Hosp ,also she new my ex partners personaly in social circles.I asked her once about why do some people pick partners who are different than themselves ,,then cause chaos in a relationship ,,
I was referring to some of my past partners on a personal level from the past ,,my situation was that i do drink in whats classed as socialy ,,2 partners i had were total piss heads and the drink has left them with a lot of social problems of everyday normal logical thinking {is that the rite terminology?}
So why pick me ,
it was said that some of these people pick opposites because they dont like looking at a mirror image of themselves ..
So maybe thats taught me a little of what to reject in the future ..
Unfortunately my work takes me into what is classed as a sub culture ,so maybe i need to be a little more enlightened instead of acepting some on face value ....bla bla bla