I didn't want to reply you, but I can't resist anymore. Being white, I worked some number of years in Africa. It seems like you hate your own race. You are ready to date white guys but you do not accept your own race. Why white guys are so good for you? White people oppressed your race for centuries, killed M.L. King, kept Nelson Mandela imprisoned? I think you are old enough to remember anti-miscegenation laws in the US? I would rather understand Africans who hate all white people. Is it a kind of achievement for you when you go out with a white guy?
I've initiated the blog asking "If ladies should write themselves or wait to be chosen?" And everybody replied - yes, of course, you should! It is 21st century now! Then I've done a little experiment - wrote to 10 guys I liked more or less. Guess, how many bothered to reply? Yes, zero! I wasn't offensive, I don't wear T-shirts, I have a high educational level, financially independent and I am obviously not a scammer.
RE: Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?
Ok, ignore everybody you want. Let me make another "false assumption" that you hate not only black guys, but also white women.