I can understand why tho....the site's become predominantly a bully's playground for a few. Also, a lot of the newbies don't interact in the forums and/or reply to emails/flowers to welcome them.
I've bugged out for a few days at a time, when i come back, if its still the same i go away again....I don't miss the fakes - i miss the friends that i make.
I've seen 36s alright, i'm sure a ring to a few of the big department stores will get you the answer and in some cases, they might even order some in for you - only a 3-4 day wait in most cases.
I'm 6'2 and find 34" inside leg no bother - Debenhams seem to have the long legged variety (wrangler, levi etc) so should be able to get them easily enough.
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Congrats!!