Well I don't know of you or your situation, but I'm very happy for the both of you. Let me just say this, it has been my experience, that when two people really make a go of these kinda sites and meet someone, and by the grace of God fall in love and start a relationship, the haters come out in droves. Misery loves company as it were. My advice to all that read this, is to keep your business between you and the person that your starting a relationship with. It really is no one else's business but the two of you, anyway. Shame that something as beautiful as love must be kept away, but when your heart is pure, the devil's in your face.
That's right stress is part of life and you have to learn to deal with it. Shutting yourself off doesn't make the problems go away, it only creates more problems. Not that I condone smoking marijuana, but smoke a joint and eat a twinkie, you'll get the same effect without the harmful, suicidal side effects.
The problem with meeting on the internet is the expectation of a preconceived notion of who that person is.Think of it this way, it's like getting a gift and you already know what's inside the package, suddenly it loses it's sparkle. Kinda ironic if you ask me. If it's love your looking for, you'll know it when you find it. The feelings will still be there even after the "meet". So my advice to you is, be happy you made a new friend and be thankful for the good times you both had with your communication, but be honest, if your not feeling it , you never will, and if you care for this guy, he has to know that. Whatever the outcome is, at least you will know that you were honest and forthright. That's an honorable way to be. Good luck in the decision that awaits you....
I just found out what bulgill is, and not to worry Tito, it can be cleared up with a couple of doses of Penicillin, but you will still need to wear the hat...
RE: Where have all the good girls gone!!