Spiceangel....I was not trying to offend you and no you where not preaching. I had an extrmemly rough xmas and it was just easier to vent on here. I'm sorry if it sound like I was tageting you.
Thanks Jeannie. I'm not man bashing so please don't anyone take my comments in the wrong way...I'm just looking to see what others have to say on the topic....I could never hate men that much.....who would take out my garbage???lol
I personally will tell a guy if he's my type or not. I'm pretty sure the guy in question was just looking for a "friend with beneifts" and I told him straight up thats not what I wanted, so when I didn't "put out" he didn't call back. No really loss. I'm not saying all men do it....just like I'm sure a lot of women lie....women lie to get men to do stuff for them or buy stuff for them all the time. I just wanted to hear what others thought. I like hearing different opions.
I don't drink so everyone else can get drunk and naked and I'll take pictures!!!
I think mine will be take the year off from the dating scene. That and quit smoking....I'm pretty sure taking a year off from men will be the easier one.
I don't sleep with guys on the first date so I'm not giving up anything...maybe thats the problem..LOL. I just hate it when they lie....I swear it's a built in gene....no offence guys but some men are just players.
I'm confused as to why when a guy says he'll call he doesn't. I'm a honest person and if I don't find a man to be my type I will tell them....why can't men give the same. I'm not saying all men are like that but the majority I have met are. I get ones that either don't call or call me 5 times a day and say they love me after 3 dates. I'm SOOOOO Confused!!
I think she stayed in it for the kids....which for me was not an option. My kids where worse off while I was married. They are happily adjusted kids now.....it's alright for a 3 yr old to have "real" potato friends right??? hehehehe
My secretary at work after 25 yrs of marraige finally left her husband...now if thats not trying to work on a marriage I don't know what is. He is a usless tit and she spent 25yrs of keeping everything togther...family, home, farm....but after the kids left she said enough is enough1 (can't say I blame her) I agree with what people are saying...it's easier...and in some cases cheaper to get divorced then it is to stay married!
The funniest part about all of this seems to be that I attracted old men.....I had a guy who is older then my dad start emailing me on here....quess his eye site wasn't working well the day he read the part in my profile where I say 30-40yr old men!!!
I have been on these personals now for about 6 months and I have had some odd experiences but I always read the guys profile....for example...if he doesn't smoke and wants a woman who doesn't smoke then I don't smile at him or email him because I smoke.....or if he says he's religious and wants a woman who is then again I wouldn't get in touch with them because I'm sure I would get struck by lighting if I walked into a church.
RE: Depression
Spiceangel....I was not trying to offend you and no you where not preaching. I had an extrmemly rough xmas and it was just easier to vent on here. I'm sorry if it sound like I was tageting you.