Advise needed ( Archived) (29)

I'm confused as to why when a guy says he'll call he doesn't. I'm a honest person and if I don't find a man to be my type I will tell them....why can't men give the same. I'm not saying all men are like that but the majority I have met are. I get ones that either don't call or call me 5 times a day and say they love me after 3 dates. I'm SOOOOO Confused!!

wow shaun... thats profound


ok heres how i see it.... he has what he sees as a better prospect(meaning hes not as interested as you may think)... or maybe you already gave it up to him and the challenge is dead.
or maybe its an ego thing... "she should call me"

bottom line... if your looking for something serious... move on... if he thought there was something undeniable there he would have called.

sooooo... can i have your number?

the classic "he's/she's just not into you " line comes to mind ...
tech called it...
move on ...

and do not


i repeat DO NOT answer him / her anymore. period.

yeah listen to th spelling bee champ,lol

I don't sleep with guys on the first date so I'm not giving up anything...maybe thats the problem..LOL. I just hate it when they lie....I swear it's a built in gene....no offence guys but some men are just players.


My number is......as if...LOL

If he doesn't call for whatever reason then moving on makes sense. It would seem had he been interested he would of called. If he calls later than expected you can always say well you should have called earlier.

I moved on the next day...I'm not wasting my time on him but like I asked...why do guys do it?

Several reasons, really. He could be shy, found someone else, he forgot to call, he got too busy, they shut off his phone, his wife might have got mad had he called, he could have been intimidated by your good looks, he lost your number, he had so many women he was checking out and you was just one of them so he hasn't got down to your name, yet; he inquired about or had you checked out and his friends convinced him he should not call, your phone doesn't work, his phone is broke, someone stole his phone, he lost the phone because his house is a mess and can't find it, he has a cat and the cat chewed the phone wire, he had to use the phone wire to hang up laundry and just forgot to plug it back in, someone needed to borrow his phone and has not returned his phone, he has trouble reading his own writing and is calling the wrong numbers, he wrote the wrong number down and he would call you tell you he wrote the wrong number down but he doesn't has the right number to call you, he is tied up in the basement and can't get to the phone or someone put in the trunk of his car when they robbed his place or maybe the whole town phone system is down.