i know what ur saying mate both my ex wife and expartener, sytematically pulled me apart every chance they got, and it does grind u down eventually ,only u can break the mould of who ur attracted too,but at the end of the day there still has to be that attraction at least u got that on ur side think in the last five yrs ive been dating ive actually only met one person who i thought this person is amazing ,and i would go to the end of the world for them,but unfortunately im not what they are looking for so the search has holted now for a while...
no settling is un fair to the person ur with, if u cant be true to them then whats the point and i dont get the people who meet someone then try to systematicley try to change someone... whats with that if ur trying to change them into someone different then there obviously not ur correct partener...im searching for that someone who has the same silly sense of humour as me ,that enjoys doing the same things,the last couple of people have knocked the stuffing out of me.... and ive give up searching ....im now just going with the flow, think i would rather just be happy with the friends ive madeand settle for that
i agree serene if theres no spark and ur just settling for near enough or good enough, it isnt going work its gonna fizzle down the track and nobody wants a damp fizzle
yeh there s apub called Uber they do food and music is pretty cool place, its in the westend and its fairly easy to get to , if everyone isnt keen we can move on out... theres plenty of other spots there ..there may be one before then blue jay gotta get dates for larf yet
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confrontation