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Men!!

You got it. If you aren't happy with the one your with... Finish it instead of draggin it on and hurting them every minute of every day. Every phone call, text or every meeting. Not freely receiving affection is brutal if your still in love.

There is NO excuse to go onto ANY dating website while you are offically with someone... All of those accounts should have been deactivated anyway.

Men!!

Nah... Can't be bothered lately!!

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I got 3!!! and 2 ... 2 Rats and fish..

I have a menagery already!!

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Yeah Wash..

It's a tricky thing.... Trust! Good one minit And gone the next!!

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Micky...

As soon as someone says, Change this.. Change that... PISS OFF!! Would have been my reply.

They "supposedly" fell in love or are falling in love with you and they want to change YOU...

WTF??

NO WAY

Men!!

There is no way I am goin to become bitter towards men... They got what I want and I everyone IS DIFFERENT!!

Never BITTER.... Just pissed off until my heart heals again!!

Men!!

Life is hard enough growin up yourself and then your own children.. I don't need someone tryin to tell me HOW to raise my kids from the 15th century. The time is now and I don't need to be told it is wrong ( from their point of view) BUT I NEED to be supported with MY modern ideas and not punished because I MAY make a mistake!!

How hard is it to support someone in their lives... ??? AAGGGGHHHHHH

Men!!

Yep! I hear ya Bushy.

It does make it very hard to trust ANYONE these days...

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Exactly!!

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Thank you KiiWiiSoul,

Just have to be careful what ya catch these days.... All depends on the bait and how they're bitin...

I just got a "flounder"..

Best wishes for you in your search too!!

Men!!

Thanks PrOwLeR...

Nice to see a familiar face..

I know it goes on in both sides of relationships... And Yes! It does seem like they are waiting for the next best thing... That is the overall feeling I get with him now. *^%$#!*... I was just 'something' until the next best thing came along...

I am bouncin back!!! I'll just become a bigger b!tch then I was to compensate for bigger @$$hol3s out there... I can go either way if they want.

Yeah I know PrOwLeR... Just a case of "He didn't mind and I didn't matter"... He stopped talkin and I was goin out with a bloke that never texed, never rang, Never replied and never talked.. I had to ask about the job he applied for.. 2 days after cause he never answered his phone for me to find out... "Oh! I thought you already knew"... Me > "You don't talk to me anymore so how could I know?"...

Great communication skills!! I don't know how his first wife of 17 years could stand his arrogance.

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Thanks Nature.

I know I did nothing wrong... He is the one that had issues then SHUT DOWN and didn't talk about them... HIS LOSS..

I am quite happy to start talkin to new people.

How hard is it to continue to love someone after your in their arms?... Obviously he thinks it's too hard to be REAL and FAIR and STRONG. Then again... Can't teach an ol dog new tricks!!

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I know what you mean singledadoftwo. It makes it hard to decide if we are prepared to give your all... I did... I got kicked in the guts AGAIN!!!

I know some men are very REAL but the majority AREN'T.

I can't say much more then that cause I am so gobsmacked that an older man would do that to me. He had it all but chose to throw it away after nearly 6 months .. Who knows anymore...

Men!!

Yeah Makes ya wonder huh Nature..

I just don't get why they can't say something... Ya know... "I'm havin a few problems with US".... That'd be a bloody good start...

I would notice that he would STOP doin things. I used to get a cuppa in the mornings.. Then it stopped!! WTF for? I don't know.

The intimacy just stopped... WTF for.. I don't know.

All kinds of affection just stopped... WTF for?

No matter how many times I asked... He just fobbed me off. Ignored me, changed the subject. Oh, He LOVED to play "DEAF".. many times. Yet I caught him out all the time. Especially when his phone rang and he JUMPED UP and raced to it. I didn't even hear it and I have MOTHER HEARING!!! I saw all of this EVENTUALLY, but he just shut down.

So much for the good, bad and the ugly days... He saw all 3 then he walked out on me. Maybe he got caught too many times and knew he couldn't actually get away with it anymore.

I don't know. He never talked about it... "Expected TOO MUCH OF ME"..he even had the STUPID notion to say "I was LAZY"!!! Hmm Single mum of 14 years, Yeah! I'm LAZY... That's why the house was lived in, food was cooked, bills were paid, the house moved itself when I decided to have a change of scenery!!!! I still can't find those bloody cleanin Faeries though!!

Oh well... His loss of a good woman!!

As I will say... Ce la vie mon ami !! HA HA You still don't even know what YOU want in life.

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Thanks Rob... Good to be back... After another BAD experience. There is a LOT more to this, as there is in any break up...

It's very hard to talk through something when they just SHUT DOWN and don't communicate at all.

Ahh well. Helloooooooooo CS!!!

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Thanks NaB... I did stop contact with him as soon as I heard him say that.. I am gettin over it but for him to continue to leave me hangin... THAT is just wrong

I sure as hell wouldn't do that to anyone.

Amazing how selfish men / BOYS can be. I am head strong person but I WILL NOT tollerate crap like that ...

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Why is it so hard for a man to just accept a female for who she is.
I spent 2 or so months talkin to a bloke from this site, we met after he traveled over 4000k's to meet me.

We got along fantastically in the first 3 months. He only told me once after about a month and a half, that he loved me. I was shocked to hear it from ANY man without some form of question to prompt an answer.

What I don't understand is why the fark, they say they accept you then want to change you to suit them... I am a very strong single mum and I have ways to do things, as I always have. He wants to come along and change things back to the 1500's instead of livin in the 21st century!

He fell in love with me.... Then as I was told, "Fell out of love with me" ... Yet he still expected me to stick around... Keepin me farkin danglin like a a gutted and torn 16 year old. He seemed to get enjoyment from not ending us but still havin me waitin for him.

I ended it cause he was hurtin me soo much... I couldn't function properly... I found out a day after we broke up that he was on here 3 weeks before hand. I have a photo of the dates off of his profile...

I always thought if you loved someone, you didn't need a bit on the side, or you went onto single DATING sites, or IGNORED the one you CLAIM to have LOVED.... It got to the point of 3-4 hours a week ONLY!!

So glad it's over!! I am healin up just good now! I just couldn't handle the SELFISHNESS from him anymore...

After 14 years I thought I was ready for a REAL relationship.... Obvoiusly, he wasn't! He can play with his own heart now... All he likes.

RE: Random Thoughts

Sometimes I ask myself.... " WTF are ya doin woman?"

RE: On a serious note

Geeeezzz Prowls!... What are you plannin on doin? Tryin to take over the world by push Or should I just be on me way ......

RE: What would you do ... If ....

PrOwLeR... I am sorry but if ya gotta FART... FART!!!

RE: welcome back Underwaterman

I know I am late but welcome back....

RE: Ever StooD on the Scales ant thought ... O.M.F.G !! ...

I have realized and my doc said I am HEALTHY... Cool!! SO I am FAT and HEALTHY... So now...I don't give a *<<< Sounds like CHUCK*


If ya don't like me today, ya won't like me tomorrow... So go *<< Sounds like CHUCK* Yourself!!

RE: Who do you think it is?

It was MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE... I want a WARM 'partner' in my bed but I will settle for .... Hmmmm... Let me see.... (he he he)

RE: OTT

OTT... Hmm?

Depends on my mood, I suppose. If I am in a good mood I can take some pointers... but if not... Yes! I do wanna slap them up BACK of the head and as the head flies forward throw the knee up to meet with their head etc...

But in general... Bah! each to their own..

RE: What Out Ladies .....

That's what gets me sometimes... How can we get SCAMMERS if we have settings and they DO NOT match??


CS? What's the go??

RE: The Dangers of Microwaves

Go have a look..

OI....

Heasdache bad now....

NIGHTY NIGHT

OI....

Thanks Blue Jay... Next time... Will try to have baby sitter...




Yes! UWM... Been tryin to visit.. Had soooo many appts of late.. I forget who I am...LOL
Had HBay appt this AM... Was driven down by appointee... Will explain ltr on..

C ya in the AM... Then have appt at 11am...

Need a week off to recover from activities ave kettle on ... Chai Latte coming up!!

OI....

I is still around....


Juss vewy vewy BUSY... ugh!!!





<< spaced out... Headache tonight ....
I will be soon

RE: Here we go again.The first word that comes to mind.

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