He he he - worst breakup? how about my marriage - it went something like this
Me: "what's wrong, you've avoided the question for months, and don't tell me you're tired or stressed -tell me the truth"
Her: "I haven't loved you for a year now, sorry, I just outgrew our relationship, I love you, but I'm not in love with you (ya, she said it), I'm soo sorry, maybe I should move out, I still see you being a big part of my life, just not married, please don't hate me, I can't help how I feel"
Me: "whaaaat?? for a year? why not give us a chance to try to save the marriage, councelling, vacation - why didn't you come to me a year ago with this, I've been worried sick about you?"
Her: "No, It's over, I feel terrible"
10 minutes later...
Me: "you're leaving already?"
Her: "going to live with my mom, bye"
(YAAA - I can honestly say I've never been hurt more - but she was right, we didn't have much of a marriage left to save by then )
I can only speak from experience, but one issue must be getting married too young - I married my highschool sweetheart - dated for about 7 years before marriage, after being married for 3 years she decided we had grown apart and walked out - I'm a big believer in marriage and committment so it was the most painful thing I've ever had to endure, but in retrospect, she was right, we had absolutely nothing in common anymore and had been living like roommates.
The way I see it - first, if he's committed to you, he should probably stop talking to this woman, second - what's he doing talking to a married woman anyway? If she's looking to cheat on her husband she's not worth it.
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RE: What was your worst breakup?How did it happen?And how did you feel?
He he he - worst breakup? how about my marriage - it went something like thisMe: "what's wrong, you've avoided the question for months, and don't tell me you're tired or stressed -tell me the truth"
Her: "I haven't loved you for a year now, sorry, I just outgrew our relationship, I love you, but I'm not in love with you (ya, she said it), I'm soo sorry, maybe I should move out, I still see you being a big part of my life, just not married, please don't hate me, I can't help how I feel"
Me: "whaaaat?? for a year? why not give us a chance to try to save the marriage, councelling, vacation - why didn't you come to me a year ago with this, I've been worried sick about you?"
Her: "No, It's over, I feel terrible"
10 minutes later...
Me: "you're leaving already?"
Her: "going to live with my mom, bye"
(YAAA - I can honestly say I've never been hurt more - but she was right, we didn't have much of a marriage left to save by then )