Divorce ( Archived) (15)

well in my opinion (which does not mean much :>])

here in the united states most of the main stream public live in a throw away society --- a suptle change started when it became easier and less expensive to replace something rather than to fix it ---- this theory carries over into individual social behavior -- it appeers to some that it may be easier to replace a spouse rather than try to work on repairing what is wrong (let alone making mutual compromises) so it has boiled down to the line at the bank, may i have the next in line please

My theory as well Adj

Toaster society. Somebody heats you up just a little too much, or a little too little......

I can only speak from experience, but one issue must be getting married too young - I married my highschool sweetheart - dated for about 7 years before marriage, after being married for 3 years she decided we had grown apart and walked out - I'm a big believer in marriage and committment so it was the most painful thing I've ever had to endure, but in retrospect, she was right, we had absolutely nothing in common anymore and had been living like roommates.

i think its cuz people get to hung up on the little things, like whinin about the toothpaste in the sink, the toilet seat being left up, a towel on the floor...people do this to avoid sitting down and really talking about the true problem...lack of communication is sure relationship death...seems my generation more than others forgot that the truth is better than any lie, id rather have a truth hurt than a web of lies being what that relationship is held together by

Pay attention to what you read. After you have finished reading it, you will know the reason people come and go. Here goes:
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient
time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your
turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an
experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an
unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But
only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put wha! t you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that
love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Sometimes we need to say thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.