What was your worst breakup?How did it happen?And how did you feel? ( Archived) (26)

I do admire each and everyone one of you. From the pain everyone has endured it hasn't stopped anyone to move forward or to give up...Mine would be my marriage of 21 years. I did file for my divorce today. We have been married for 21 years. He has cheated a few times throughout of the marriage. Took off whenever he felt like it without letting anyone know if he was dead or alive. I think the worse part was the mind games that he played. He would try to convince me that I was the crazy one and I was imagining things. I use to believe that I was the insane one in my younger years. I believed it enough where I put myself into a hospital to hear the doctor tell me that he was the problem not me...Well thank God for recovery. We both used together and went into recovery together. He couldn't stay clean and i did. I think he resented this. As I changed and his games didn't work anymore we seemed to grow further apart. He disappeared last August for 7 months without a trace. He moved in with his friends girlfriend. He actually does not see anything that he does is wrong.Finally contacted us in March. He says it's not over. Well, I say it is and filed for divorce.

My worst break up was when my ex wife walked out on my kids and I after I was in a car accident, luckily my kids helped nurse me back to health....Ron

The one and only relationship i ever had was i guess the worst break up...lol...after being with him for 6 years, he proposed to me the christmas before last in front of my family and then he broke up with me for another girl he met while he was in school just 2 months after he got on his one knee....but they are happy now and i wish them the best of luck, because obviously we werent meant for each other.

I'd been dating a guy for two years, was head over heels for him, he became my best friend confidant etc...was over there one weekend and we were talking and I told him how my biggest fear was to just be forgotten again(as that is what had happend with previous relationships they just "forgot" to ever call me again)..... after I left I didn't hear from him for two weeks (used to talking everyday) he wouldn't answer his phone, then when I finally got a call from him he told me that "it just didn't feel right" I was devistated

I walked in on my ex and one of the guys she went to school with. I just turned around and walk out of the situation for good. That isn't the worst of it. About a month later people were asking me how I could that to someone. Apparently she told everyone she knew that I had been caught cheating on her. I may have lost a girlfriend but I did gain a couple of great friends. Her dad and brothers and I still get along great. which burns her everytime she thinks about it. And I'm loving it.

never had a bad one...

hi marcym,doing my bbq,my worst break up was my divorce due to my kids,ex wife liked to play around,so was a no go

ok, lets share this with complete strangers...lol...

my worst, i was working on the cruise ship....i was working a 6 month contract...i was in bermuda...and on my birthday, i call my girl back home...i was feeling all alone..i missed her...and needed to hear a warm loving voice....and she tells me that she wants to tell me something....she has been having an affair for 2 months...i had been away from home for 3 mths..and she told me she wanted to break up with me.....

it was the worst.....

so from home....

and on my birthday....

and the thought of her with someone else...and someone i thought would never ever do that to me....

Hallo to you,how are you..I must say so many tragic things that happened and I thought one of mine could compare it doesn't even come close to these bad deals..My worst was my last,because I never thought I could end something before I stoped loving them,but had to..

He he he - worst breakup? how about my marriage - it went something like this

Me: "what's wrong, you've avoided the question for months, and don't tell me you're tired or stressed -tell me the truth"

Her: "I haven't loved you for a year now, sorry, I just outgrew our relationship, I love you, but I'm not in love with you (ya, she said it), I'm soo sorry, maybe I should move out, I still see you being a big part of my life, just not married, please don't hate me, I can't help how I feel"

Me: "whaaaat?? for a year? why not give us a chance to try to save the marriage, councelling, vacation - why didn't you come to me a year ago with this, I've been worried sick about you?"

Her: "No, It's over, I feel terrible"

10 minutes later...

Me: "you're leaving already?"

Her: "going to live with my mom, bye"

(YAAA - I can honestly say I've never been hurt more - but she was right, we didn't have much of a marriage left to save by then )