what to do when a married woman trys to steal your boyfriend ( Archived) (31)

well she wont leave us alone calls emails what to do can any one help us...

I am with you, babe. :)

Send her some flowers and tell her you have a crush on her.

This will either work or put you in a tougher spot..lol


Well it's better advice than yours Roy....lol


Good luck with that one Rose it's never easy...


Pete

...is her hubby cute???

dont think flowers will help.she being calling my boy friend and hes all upset..hope she understands hes mine now and she has a man at home......

Maybe talking to her husband instead of her?

dont think her husband cares what she dose.well roys with me now...she have to get use to it

Ah..........I just put two and two twogether; forgive me, I'm slow sometimes.

If you like drama continue taking her calls, continue reading her posts, continue reading her e-mails and continue making her the focus of your discussions.

If she knows there's no one there taking her calls, reading her posts and e-mails, and she knows she has no meaning in his life, *maybe* she'll go away.

But what do I know (had to borrow that one from adj).

Well, first I would suggest to change your phone number to an "unpublished" number.. (NOT UNLISTED) but unpublished. At least that will give the both of you some peace. It doesn't appear in the yellow pages or even a telephone operator/information assistant can't access it (they CAN with an "unlisted" number, she could always call saying it's an emergency, and the operator would then call requesting you to take the call.. but an UNPUBLISHED number, they can't do that, cause THEY don't even have a record of it.) Then block her email address so she can't email.. using the block feature within yr ISP. She might change her email address if she can't get thru with her old one, so you might even have to change your email addresses as well. If she finds out your new ones, you can file a "No Contact" order against her. Print out all the emails, etc she has sent showing her instablity then take it to your local police station to use as proof. I know it's a hassle.. you'll have to change all yr records w/billings letting co's know what yr new info is, etc.. and tell family and friends what your new number/email is... but if she's unstable, believe me, it's worth it.

If she lives closeby, that's even worse.. if you do what's above, it may even instigate her to start coming around where you live.. in that case you might have to file a Restraining Order.. If she violates that or even a "No Contact" order, she can go to jail. Maybe then it will sink in that she has to leave the both of you alone.

I'm sorry for the both of you that you have to go thru this.. some people are just not right in the head. But you might have to what's above just to be better safe than sorry. And the reason why I'm going so much into detail about this is because I've read and heard too many horror stories about situations like this that can turn out so horrible (if you know what I mean) both in the paper and on the news.. You don't want to end up another statistic. So please, don't just think if you ignore it, it'll go away.. it probably won't.. so you might have to take legal action against her.

Hope it works out, prayers for the both of you.
Love,
Ann