We did not know that she was pregnant at the time of the break-up. If I had known, things would not have turned out the way they did. I was so in love with her that I did not want her to suffer due to my problems with alcohol, problems with the government, and very, very bad attitude toward life in general.
Hind-sight is 20/20 !!
She was a very independent lady and had slight wealth as I am sure she still is.
She did not want her family to know that she hung-out with a bad-boy like me. I lived on the edge and she liked that about me. When she found out that she was pregnant, she had to re-Prioritize her life and I could not be a part of it the way I was then.
Last week I received a letter from an ex-girlfriend named Suzanne. She was very clear that she was not pursuing any type of financial settlement or anything else that would be considered as legal reasons. She has her own money and does not need mine but, she does want me to know that her daughter can have no other father than me due to the commitment level that we had in the relationship. She included a picture of her daughter and I must say that she is a beautiful 24 year old, her name is Sandra.
She stresses that she only wants to confirm me as the father at her daughters request if I agree to a DNA test. Sandra has been married for three years and is now pregnant. She has been wanting to have her mother try to locate me for the past ten years, for no other reason than to meet me and include me as being her father if I really am the father.
They both seem to be very spiritual and only want to include me as part of the family, if I am comfortable with the situation. She will pay for the testing, I can choose where to be tested and they will not be present during, or after the test if I am not the father. If I am determined the father without a doubt then she requests that I agree to meet them for a weekend after the holidays in January.
I left that relationship and never looked back until now. Seems like yesterday as I try to resolve my own issues on this situation. I know what I will do, I will have the testing done. I guess I seek the consensus of C/S friends for advice and or support.
To any ladies that I email, or have swapped phone numbers with, I ask for patience with me during this time of confusion and slight fear of the truth, all the hours that I work do not help matters concerning my emotional health at the moment. My doctor wants to put me on meds to help me sleep at night and cope during the day, but I refuse it for now, might change tomorrow, who knows?
Has anyone else ever had the past come back to life like this, or know someone that did ?
I've lived in Colorado Springs, and Cripple creek, Colorado, uuuhhhhhh, oh yeah, LA California, and uummmm, Tn., Ms., Fla., and Underabridge Alabama !!
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PLEASE HELP, I NEED ADVICE !!!.......I think ?
We did not know that she was pregnant at the time of the break-up. If I had known, things would not have turned out the way they did. I was so in love with her that I did not want her to suffer due to my problems with alcohol, problems with the government, and very, very bad attitude toward life in general.Hind-sight is 20/20 !!
She was a very independent lady and had slight wealth as I am sure she still is.
She did not want her family to know that she hung-out with a bad-boy
like me. I lived on the edge and she liked that about me. When she found out that she was pregnant, she had to re-Prioritize her life and I could not be a part of it the way I was then.