i am great at finding things,, had you bags like shopping bags that you put in the rubbish pin?, maybe your coat pocket?, In the cupboard drawers? On a chair? in another room that you went into when you came home?
Well i watched some of the video. and there was a typical example of the "Mental Stimulation", That i put up a thread about some time ago,, On the mans part, She fell for it.
But if you "sell out" that which defines you, for love of someone doesn't that in itself bring resentment later on , any compromise goes out the window ,if you deny yourself something which makes you happy
All depends what you'd be interrupting him for. If it's to ask the rules.. 'Nahhh'.. but if it's to have your own scrum on the sofa with him... All is fair in love & war.[/quote
Lol, what goes to Aviva, stays at Aviva . or, i don't kiss and tell.
First to thine own self be true, isn't that the saying. I think you hit the nail on the head there when you said, ("at too early an age"), it is with hindsight (which is pretty useless) that we know, what we should have done and what makes us really happy.
But from there ,with a lot more experience in life, we can move on to do the things that make us happy( and why not) and cherishing family at the same time, so it's a no loose situation. We cannot change our pasts
It is not a bad thing, if 20 years later you are still doing the thing that you love, on the contrary, you are blessed. The key there is the open and honest, and i'm sure you will find a close companion ( if that be your desire) if you just be the person you are happy to be, sure that is an attraction in itself.
Good Thread, Maybe, but only on myself, if trusting someone counts. When you think yes here is one that, maybe can be trusted, (men ) Then discover that they can't , that being, in word or deed
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would you like to share some experiences?
Convivial canoodling!
Wow, in the snow, would love that, i hope it wasn't the same hot tub,as i see you are a Cork woman lol