Also a shame that so many men put their needs first and walk away from their families thereby leaving single mums to be categorized in such a way!!! Not always the woman's fault..just sayin.
I may have made a bad decision but it took him 14 years and 4 children to walk away, doesn't make me a bad person. I'm left raising the kids not him.Saying that I'm not looking for a father for my kids, they don't need one,useless as the one is they have, he IS their dad.
Ok just to clarify this are women with more than one child bad parents?? Only some of us have raised or are raising more and I'm a damn good parent and wouldn't thank anyone to judge my parenting, especially from someone who hasn't had the pleasure yet. Maybe and just for the sake of argument, she wonderful parent that she will be, might not want to raise your junior dna!!
Firstly I think as many men condemn as women but just my opinion.
Secondly I think if you want to meet someone, surely it should be about the person as much as any previous baggage they bring with them. I have met men both with and without children and it doesn't matter to me personally but I do make it clear I have children and they live with me so they are going to be part of the relationship if things progress that far.Again just my opinion but in my profile so there is no doubt. I'm not looking for a parent for my kids because that is my job.
I can't quite understand why people get so het up about the issue of kids.It's all down to what you want personally
Maybe you could look in a map book Or better yet search Google to find out which county Birmingham is actually in
Ohhhh it's ok I get it you were so focused on that non- existant gullible ready to be scammed gorgeous hot man you got your profile wrong It's ok it happens...........apparently
You don't know that their life would have been better. Mothers have those fears too.Dad's should take the same responsibility with parenting as the mother where possible.Doesn't usually happen tho and for those dads that do, good on you.
Lucky my kids have me to hold their hair while they puke, beam while I hear how well they're doing at school,cheer them over the line at sports day and listen with them reading.They are daddy's world for the few hours he sees them on a weekend afternoon but he seems to forget they exist apart from that.Ah well I think, what will they have to thank him for as mum is doing all the important stuff.Ideal world should be both but as we all know the world is far from ideal.
Met 4 in person but made so many friends that like jeepers have had massive impact on my life and I hope will remain friends for life.They are there for the highs as well as the lows and no matter the time I find there is always someone ready to listen when u need someone.
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Or better yet search Google to find out which county Birmingham is actually in 
It's ok it happens...........apparently 
RE: single Mummy venting!!!
Also a shame that so many men put their needs first and walk away from their families thereby leaving single mums to be categorized in such a way!!! Not always the woman's fault..just sayin.I may have made a bad decision but it took him 14 years and 4 children to walk away, doesn't make me a bad person. I'm left raising the kids not him.Saying that I'm not looking for a father for my kids, they don't need one,useless as the one is they have, he IS their dad.