thanks for clearing up...well,this kind of problems is around the world...handling good relationship,i think is a person's good personality not where he came from
hiya monte...well even if you want to fix the problem,there's no use if your mate is not interested anymore..what should you do?i guess you will not beg to him not to leave you..no one do this stupid thing"begging"ah ah on my side..no way..let it go
you are not safe anywhere...giving an IM is not a problem.the problem is..how can you handle yourself in chatting with those possible scammers? self discipline...scammers can't get anything from you if you will not let yourself be drown with there sweet talking style.
RE: Spreading yourself thin...