Girls always say they hate liars yet they want us to lie to them. Next time your girl says does this dress make me look fat tell her the truth. If it makes her look fat tell her yes it makes you look fat. She will get angry and may not speak to you for a month. Sorry girls but you know it's the truth.
Every time I've been 100% sincere it wasn't really appreciated, no matter how many CS female members declare to be looking for someone very sincere so yes, I do lie sometimes in order not to hurt someone's feelings.
AsNotSeenOnTV: Every time I've been 100% sincere it wasn't really appreciated, no matter how many CS female members declare to be looking for someone very sincere so yes, I do lie sometimes in order not to hurt someone's feelings.
The truth I want from a man is his marital status.
I also want him to tell me if he was with the boys getting a few beers and not working overtime.
If he wants a divorce I'd rather he tell me he's not happy and wants a divorce rather then running around with women behind my back.
I don't care if he didn't like the dinner I cooked or he doesn't like my clothes.
alicalotapus: Girls always say they hate liars yet they want us to lie to them. Next time your girl says does this dress make me look fat tell her the truth. If it makes her look fat tell her yes it makes you look fat. She will get angry and may not speak to you for a month. Sorry girls but you know it's the truth.
AsNotSeenOnTV: Every time I've been 100% sincere it wasn't really appreciated, no matter how many CS female members declare to be looking for someone very sincere so yes, I do lie sometimes in order not to hurt someone's feelings.
it's because we were lied to 100% of the time before we met you so we are inclined to question sincerity as having an ulterior motive & being not genuine....as a matter of course - so it is not a lack of appreciation u are noting - it is disbelief
myfisrt: I think it's not the truth that hurts, but it's the way the truth is told..
nicely stated! i'd rather hear the truth. recently someone i cared for deeply, lied to me. i knew at the time they were not telling the truth. i even knew at the time they thought they were acting in my best interests. but it still undermined my ability to trust them further. the truth isn't always convenient...but i still think it's the best course of action.
jono7: nicely stated! i'd rather hear the truth. recently someone i cared for deeply, lied to me. i knew at the time they were not telling the truth. i even knew at the time they thought they were acting in my best interests. but it still undermined my ability to trust them further. the truth isn't always convenient...but i still think it's the best course of action.
I recently had a similar experience and with the same result, trust in a friend marred
but then I question if the friend was really that at all = the damage of a deception
alicalotapus: Girls always say they hate liars yet they want us to lie to them. Next time your girl says does this dress make me look fat tell her the truth. If it makes her look fat tell her yes it makes you look fat. She will get angry and may not speak to you for a month. Sorry girls but you know it's the truth.
Always "Man" or "Woman" ,, Get real they both do and they both don't.
It depends what question you ask I guess. If you ask a man if you look fat in a dress or pants, and he wants to get laid that night, well what do you think he might answer??? Exactly>>>>no! Plus, if we are fat, then we are fat, no color or new outfit can mask that one. So don't ask for approval from others when you already know!
Lieing to a woman does not save her feelings. She pretty much knows when you're blowing air up her skirt, so you are only hurting yourself by not being honest, and losing a piece of her trust each time.
Kaybee50: Lieing to a woman does not save her feelings. She pretty much knows when you're blowing air up her skirt, so you are only hurting yourself by not being honest, and losing a piece of her trust each time.
Yep, I would think being known as a liar would not be good for a relationship. A man can be honest with a woman but if a gal is sensitive; then just be tactful in the way you word it.
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