1111Awakening Forum Posts

Sep 5, 2010

RE: meeting some one outside the bar seen

Hi, just get out in the community and participate in things that interest you. If you like to hike, go hiking. If you like to read metaphysics, go to the bookstore and hang out in that section. The grocery store idea someone had is good. Join meetup groups to meet people who share your interests. I go to clubs to dance and sing and have a good time with friends, not to find men...

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Sep 5, 2010

RE: If you found a wallet what would you do?

I've been on both ends of this. Once I actually left my entire PURSE in a shopping cart in a parking lot and drove off. GASP! Some honest person took it to customer service and I got it back untouched.

Likewise I was getting gas one day and saw someone's billfold sitting on top of the pump - it was stuffed, you could see cash and credit cards bulging out. I took it (untouched) inside to the cashier, then later had a bad feeling that they probably didn't do the honest thing with it from there. Kinda wished I had opened it and found a way to call the owner but I just didn't want to invade it and possibly be falsely accused later of something missing.

1:00a.m. True Story - in the ladies room stall at a night club, saw a cigarrette case on the floor, picked it up and saw it had about $55 cash stuffed inside. Went around to various employees to inquire if anyone had reported a lost pack of cigs and if so what else was in there. No luck. Left my phone number with them to call and if someone described it I'd give it back. Never got the call. So I gave the money to a lady who needed it for cancer treatment.

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OPSep 4, 2010

Just discovered how to find compatible interests

Click on Forums, then to the left click on Search. Type in the search box a word or name that is something you're into, and you'll get a return of posts by people who have mentioned it too.

I did that for "Eckhart" (Tolle) one of my favorite authors, and found people who share my interest.

Also you can type in the nickname of any member here to see what they've posted - or if they've posted - to find out if you resonate with what they have to say and how they are interacting.

Hope this helps someone

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Sep 3, 2010

RE: How Much Wine do you drink? Really! :wine:

Red wine - 1 glass if I go out to my favorite mexican restaurant 2 glasses spread out over the evening if I cook a romantic steak dinner for two at home! Since I don't get to do either of those very often, not much LOL

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Sep 2, 2010

RE: Mandatory semi-annual performance evaluations

Hi Zeus, yeah after experiencing that relationship I don't think I could settle for someone who's not on a similar wavelength. I know my ideals are pretty high but I'd rather be by myself than in an unhappy relationship. If it's meant to be it will happen ...

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Sep 2, 2010

RE: Mandatory semi-annual performance evaluations

LOL you don't like my special effects?

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Sep 2, 2010

RE: Mandatory semi-annual performance evaluations

Hi Zeus,

Sure!

My former spiritual partner (aka boyfriend - together 3 years and great friends since parting) and I are both into spirituality and self awareness, conscious relationship, openness and honesty. Of course we "talked" all the time, but we also made time to write deep letters to each other as well as have these periodic meetings (usually in conjunction with a romantic evening in, a home-cooked meal, and a glass of red wine!).

It was our time to be 100% real about what was and wasn't working for each of us, and to discuss what, if anything, to do about things that needed tweaking. We both found it useful and enlightening. Without it, things can fester because when life is busy, you may not have or make the time to bring up the deeper issues until someone's cork blows. With our method, things rarely festered long enough to make a needed discussion unpleasant. Drama free, for the most part.

When our romantic relationship ended, we both hugged and cried, feeling the loss and yet knowing it was time to move on. Unusual I know, but doesn't it beat the nastiness and revenge so many couples get into?

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Sep 2, 2010

RE: Hman Race Extinction

The History Channel did a documentary on that topic recently. I think it was called "Life After Humans." Interesting

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Sep 2, 2010

RE: Are the profiles targeting the right areas

I was pretty in-depth in my profile - I guess at this stage of my life I'm clear on who I am, what I want, and what I'm not willing to put up with LOL. I just joined yesterday but have already noticed that of the guys' profiles I've looked at, if they don't say much I'm not as inclined to consider them. I know a lot of people don't want to give info until they interact in person but I need SOMETHING to go on, don't you?

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Sep 2, 2010

RE: Mandatory semi-annual performance evaluations

Absolutely! (In fact, in my last relationship we did something very similar every 3 months or so...)

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Sep 2, 2010

RE: Waste of time if you are single dad,,

Hmm, Maybe saying you have kids is just a convenient way out for some ladies who arent' feeling a connection with you and don't want to hurt your feelings or confidence. I personally would be thrilled to date a single dad who is devoted to his kids - if we were compatible match. I love children and would enjoy having more around. But if there's a war going on between him and his ex, I run the other way and never look back LOL.

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Sep 2, 2010

RE: How Do You Know When You Truly Love A Person?

My 2 cents...

People often confuse the hormonal and chemical "high" of being IN LOVE with true love. When the bubble bursts and that high diminishes (usually no later than the 2-year mark), they wonder what happened. So they break up and repeat this process with someone new.

In my opinion, if the relationship still feels wonderful at the 3-year point, you've got that special connection you could call "true love."

The caveat is we are all EVER CHANGING beings, so what works for you or me today may not suit us in the future. Some couples grow together, others grow apart and end up trying to "make it work." They are miserable and sacrificing their happiness and their remaining years based on a legal document or a commitment made back when they were, in effect, different people.

There is no ONE Mr. or Mrs. Right walking around the planet that you need to find ...

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OPSep 1, 2010

How does IM work?

Thanks Guys

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OPSep 1, 2010

How does IM work?

Hi All

I'm brand new here (and to online dating sites) - just wondering how the IM works? I have tried going to the "online now" list and clicking on the icon that looks like a talk-bubble next to a few people's names, but nothing happens. (I enabled the IMs also.)

Anyone give me a clue? Thanks!

P.S. - Wishing you all the best!

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RE: meeting some one outside the bar seen

RE: If you found a wallet what would you do?

Just discovered how to find compatible interests

RE: How Much Wine do you drink? Really! :wine:

RE: Mandatory semi-annual performance evaluations

RE: Mandatory semi-annual performance evaluations

RE: Mandatory semi-annual performance evaluations

RE: Hman Race Extinction

RE: Are the profiles targeting the right areas

RE: Mandatory semi-annual performance evaluations

RE: Waste of time if you are single dad,,

RE: How Do You Know When You Truly Love A Person?

How does IM work?

How does IM work?

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