You are making a ant out of a mole's hill, I number 1, didn't mean to upset you in any way I just asked a guestion, your opinion bothers me, but, I did ask why, and I will leave it at that, number 2, my mother was just as special to me as your is to you, be proud of your mother as I am mine. She also was a true southern woman and I will be also, and as sounding stupid, I will leave that alone, the fact that you don't know me, and I was just getting opinions on the subject didn't mean to step on your toes dear.
I agree, I also love my accent, but, I have ran into a few guys say that it's a turn off, I mean men have contacted me and I give them my number, they call and poof, they either hang up or love it, for example, guy called I said Hello and he stated the way I talk is not who he wishes to be with, and I needed to get voice lessons and that he does not wish to ever talk with me again. LOSER. That's ok with me!
Had a fellow contact me, and we talked and carried on the phone about how he hated the city and I live in the country and he had always wanted to live in the country, could he live with me if we hooked up, and then day I left a mesage on his cell and the phone rang at my house, answered, it was his wife, she was very nice and told me what he had been up to, you see I was not the first one, or even the only one he was in contact with, he was married with 3 kids by this woman and she knew that he was playing on the internet, but had know idea of he was playing with, so, I helped set him up and get him busted! She and I are still pretty close and she is divorced and living a good life.
I, also have heart problems and I let them know up front, and if that person is interested still, I explain to them it's not a problem, I have heart stints, there is noithing to worry about, I live a normal life and the only problem I have is can't do any heavy lifting, and men don't mind, "most", some do and I would hate to be a relationship knowing that he had not told me if he had a health problem, because if something did happen, then I need to know how to react.
I find that on the internet, there's alot of men and woman and to some people, hard to decide, so many to choose from, and the grass looks greener on the other side. You, like I, may have not been that important after, and he's found, what he thinks is greener grass. I also have had that problem and I give 1 call back and most of the time "caller I.D.", and he will not pick up the phone, so, the way I look at it, maybe the grass is greener for me!
If you do would you want to let your child be treated like that? No, I wouldn't then think of yours as your kids! They wouldn't want thier mom to be treated like that.:bye:
They are losers and don't even respond back, or use the 3 strike thing! You are a very nice looking person, and you don't deserve that! Do you how kids?
Then say so...don't tell a person that your interested in getting to know them and not follow through. A person who contacts you has done read your profile, and most of them say what kind of relationship you are looking for, if it says long term...what does that mean? To me that means no one night stands, no to just dating looking for a serious relationship. If your hunting for one night stands say it, don't waste someone heart and time! Alot of the people on here are good people, and don't deserve to be played with, if your looking for the person of your dreams, look, if your looking for party people, say it, don't tell a person that your looking for something your not! It not fare.
I had a fellow who contacted me several times, when I finally gave him my email address, poof, he was gone! Then on another site, he contacted me again, and I gave it to him again and poof, he never contacted me again. Guess what? He has also contacted me on another site and I am not going to contact him, and I emailed him, and told him that I would not give him any address, and now he wants it so bad that he's emailing everyday! Please, I just want to talk to you! Soory, but, no! I use the same username and hometown address, like he don't remember me! Most sites I have a photo also, so stupid or just playing!
By all means meet him in a public place, keep your cell phone in your hand, most of the time I keep mine where he can't see it, so he can't take it from you, like under a table out of sight, or a pocket easy to reach if something happens, and never give him (or her) your address. Tell him up front that a friend is with you and they rode with you. Most of the time I meet in a mall or someplace like Walmart or K- mart, or even at groc. store I know it's sounds funny, but, it's not funny if something happens and no one is around. As far as the olde "emer. at home", thing, be honest and tell the person that you have 1 hour to talk to him and that you will be leaving that way, if it's not working , it saves alot of time wasted and lies being told. Even if it's not the one for you, then your not into it to far and feel that you must stay. What do you thinks friends, sound advice?
butterfly62 Forum Posts (53)
You are a very nice looking person, and you don't deserve that! Do you how kids?
It not fare.
RE: Hello Georgia!!
North Georgia here! Helloto everyone.