OK, I new to this internet dating thing. I want to go out on some dates with guys...but how I to know that they aren't crazy or some merderer?? Any advice?? ~K
Hun please do not go out with anyone on here unless you have spoken with him for along time. Not just e-mails. Find out his address and make sure that's where he lives. The work place, as much info. as you can. Meet him in a public place like a mall etc... Please be careful and do not jump into anything without checking him out first.
I think women can judge males by just eyes. So i think you can meet him in a public place. But first talk with him on phone for couple of times and then decide.
Be very careful---try to get to know them----very well-----take your time and don't rush into anything...... You have no way of knowing if they are predators or murderers or anything......only be getting as much info as you can.........Good Luck and take care of yourself---stay safe!!!!!!
check what he says if he says he's one age, ask him a couple weeks later and see if it's the same, or if he talks about a sister ask her name then ask a couple weeks later again, just make sure his stories match up with eachother, if they don't, there might be something wrong there...and call his house at a time when he shouldn't be there...see if someone else picks up
The best thing to do is to go to an open and public place, don't let him pick you up, just meet him there. That way if something happens during dinner or coffee, then you know you can leave. Make sure you have a friend that knows where you are and can SMS to give you a quick escape...meaning if the date sucks goto the bathroom, SMS your friend, then your friend calls you while you are sitting with him; "family emergancy got to go" or something like that...
The main thing is go out with people, just make sure you stay in the public eye and have people know where u are. Then your safe...anyone can be crazy, and you can also get hit by a car just as easily. Just be careful as you would crossing the street.
beachy.......how do you know....ill tell you how....iv interviewed a few of the guys on this site.....and the best one is ronjie..... send him a rose today......
By all means meet him in a public place, keep your cell phone in your hand, most of the time I keep mine where he can't see it, so he can't take it from you, like under a table out of sight, or a pocket easy to reach if something happens, and never give him (or her) your address. Tell him up front that a friend is with you and they rode with you. Most of the time I meet in a mall or someplace like Walmart or K- mart, or even at groc. store I know it's sounds funny, but, it's not funny if something happens and no one is around. As far as the olde "emer. at home", thing, be honest and tell the person that you have 1 hour to talk to him and that you will be leaving that way, if it's not working , it saves alot of time wasted and lies being told. Even if it's not the one for you, then your not into it to far and feel that you must stay. What do you thinks friends, sound advice?
public meeting place, tell at least 2 people where you will be or maybe if you meet at the park or something you can bump into some friends ask him qusetions many times and try to keep record of answers so you can see if things add up
Hon, watch out for Mach25, he is a little crazy......but a great guy to get to know.....you just have to ask them ?'s and if they refuse to anwser the ?'s then back off from that one.......plus when u do find the right guy.....trust me....you will know it......
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