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Jul 7, 2006 9:50 PM CST How do you know?
beachbum_k
beachbum_kbeachbum_kLondon, Ontario Canada4 Threads 23 Posts
OK, I new to this internet dating thing. I want to go out on some dates with guys...but how I to know that they aren't crazy or some merderer?? Any advice??
~K
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Jul 7, 2006 9:51 PM CST How do you know?
just ax them,lmao.just kidding.
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Jul 7, 2006 9:59 PM CST How do you know?
SingledOut
SingledOutSingledOutParris, Texas USA447 Posts
Hun please do not go out with anyone on here unless you have spoken with him for along time. Not just e-mails. Find out his address and make sure that's where he lives. The work place, as much info. as you can. Meet him in a public place like a mall etc...
Please be careful and do not jump into anything without checking him out first.
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Jul 7, 2006 10:01 PM CST How do you know?
alone_nil
alone_nilalone_nilSan Jose, California USA6 Threads 42 Posts
I think women can judge males by just eyes. So i think you can meet him in a public place. But first talk with him on phone for couple of times and then decide.
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Jul 7, 2006 10:01 PM CST How do you know?
beachbum_k
beachbum_kbeachbum_kLondon, Ontario Canada4 Threads 23 Posts
Oh, I didn't plan on jumping into anything lol I was just wondering if anyone had any tricks or other advice!!
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Jul 7, 2006 10:05 PM CST How do you know?
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
You really don't. If you plan to meet just meet with friends or a very public place. Hope this helpslaugh
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Jul 7, 2006 10:42 PM CST How do you know?
You want crazy but not a murderer. professor
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Jul 7, 2006 10:52 PM CST How do you know?
rue123
rue123rue123Eugene, Oregon USA2 Posts
If you give have a cell phone give him that number, that way he can't find out your address.thumbs up Ie reverse phone search.
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Jul 7, 2006 10:57 PM CST How do you know?
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
Be very careful---try to get to know them----very well-----take your time and don't rush into anything......
You have no way of knowing if they are predators or murderers or anything......only be getting as much info as you can.........Good Luck and take care of yourself---stay safe!!!!!!banana banana banana banana
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Jul 7, 2006 11:05 PM CST How do you know?
check what he says
if he says he's one age, ask him a couple weeks later and see if it's the same, or if he talks about a sister ask her name then ask a couple weeks later again, just make sure his stories match up with eachother, if they don't, there might be something wrong there...and call his house at a time when he shouldn't be there...see if someone else picks up
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Jul 7, 2006 11:06 PM CST How do you know?
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Jul 8, 2006 12:16 AM CST How do you know?
Mystic2Canadian
Mystic2CanadianMystic2CanadianChatham, Ontario Canada15 Posts
The best thing to do is to go to an open and public place, don't let him pick you up, just meet him there. That way if something happens during dinner or coffee, then you know you can leave. Make sure you have a friend that knows where you are and can SMS to give you a quick escape...meaning if the date sucks goto the bathroom, SMS your friend, then your friend calls you while you are sitting with him; "family emergancy got to go" or something like that...

The main thing is go out with people, just make sure you stay in the public eye and have people know where u are. Then your safe...anyone can be crazy, and you can also get hit by a car just as easily. Just be careful as you would crossing the street.
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Jul 8, 2006 1:03 AM CST How do you know?
SingledOut
SingledOutSingledOutParris, Texas USA447 Posts
thumbs up thumbs up
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Jul 8, 2006 3:14 AM CST How do you know?
beachy.......how do you know....ill tell you how....iv interviewed a few of the guys on this site.....and the best one is ronjie..... send him a rose today......smitten
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Jul 8, 2006 5:53 AM CST How do you know?
butterfly62
butterfly62butterfly62chatsworth, Georgia USA5 Threads 53 Posts
By all means meet him in a public place, keep your cell phone in your hand, most of the time I keep mine where he can't see it, so he can't take it from you, like under a table out of sight, or a pocket easy to reach if something happens, and never give him (or her) your address. Tell him up front that a friend is with you and they rode with you. Most of the time I meet in a mall or someplace like Walmart or K- mart, or even at groc. store I know it's sounds funny, but, it's not funny if something happens and no one is around. As far as the olde "emer. at home", thing, be honest and tell the person that you have 1 hour to talk to him and that you will be leaving that way, if it's not working , it saves alot of time wasted and lies being told. Even if it's not the one for you, then your not into it to far and feel that you must stay. What do you thinks friends, sound advice?

professor
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Jul 8, 2006 5:55 AM CST How do you know?
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
public meeting place, tell at least 2 people where you will be or maybe if you meet at the park or something you can bump into some friends ask him qusetions many times and try to keep record of answers so you can see if things add up
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Jul 8, 2006 5:58 AM CST How do you know?
greeneyedgal1970
greeneyedgal1970greeneyedgal19706 Threads 410 Posts
Hon, watch out for Mach25, he is a little crazy......but a great guy to get to know.....you just have to ask them ?'s and if they refuse to anwser the ?'s then back off from that one.......plus when u do find the right guy.....trust me....you will know it......

love love smitten smitten
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Jul 9, 2006 8:05 PM CST How do you know?
alone_nil
alone_nilalone_nilSan Jose, California USA6 Threads 42 Posts
Hey Ladies,

Now that you all have checklist about what to do and what not to do, Anyone wanna go on date with decent, nice guy... ?... lol


dancing smitten wine conversing banana peace tongue rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 25, 2006 9:30 PM CST How do you know?
urbanmyth
urbanmythurbanmythEDINBURGH, Lothian, Scotland UK10 Threads 435 Posts
Just ask us.

I, for one, am indeed crazy...and I am some spellchecker.
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Aug 25, 2006 9:33 PM CST How do you know?
urbanmyth
urbanmythurbanmythEDINBURGH, Lothian, Scotland UK10 Threads 435 Posts
Good advice.

Check him out.
Safe, sane and sanitary.
Hygiene is everything.
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