I totally agree with that. I like to keep mine hid lately because I am tired of some guys getting in touch & not wanting to show there pic. So I took mine down. But if we were to chat and he asked for one I would put one up for the mailing purpose. But only if he did. I would want his first & after I seen his I would. But I would be leary to give mine fist incase he tricked me as some have. And as you said *how do we know it's not a phoney* could be anyones pic that is being displayed.
Oh and just to set things straight I would not treat his kids any different then my own. If they were all together in the same room I would not favor one more than the other. Thats the way it is with me & I dont favor one of mine more than the other and they know that cause I have told them point blank.
You know I find the ones skinny still think they are not skinny enough & the heavy ones always condem themselves even if they are not that heavy. No matter what a person does to do with weight they are never happy any way... thats why I don't care so much about the weight factor. Why are ppl. never happy with themselves ? You think it has to do with society or is it just their peers getting on them ? I don't know. But I love me for who I am and the way I am built.
I am happy with the weight I am but I don't mirror myself. I have had ppl. say I am too thin & some say I am too heavy and the whole blah blah blah weight thing. But I don't let ppl. ( what they say ) get to me.
SIMPLE ! 1. The controling factor. 2. Cheating on me. 3. Does he have a temper that is hidden. 4. Is he gonna expect me to change in any way. 5. Is he gonna like my kids or be jealous of them.
I have nothing against tattoo's or peircings & as for my kids I figure it's their body & they can do what they want. Besides they will only go out behind your back and get them done somewhere you won't be aware of anyway if you refuse. They don't have to go to a shop to have that done, they can have them done at a friends place. I say to them go for it if thats what you want & if they don't like them in the future they can always remove them. The peircings will just heal & close up.
I have met 3 and they were all cool in their own way.
I know several that met off this site & are still together "living together." And it is working out very well for them. I think in time all of us will meet our match, just gotta hang in there. "well for those of you who are looking"
Thats a tough question. Maybe they don't want to have to deal with the father /support/child visiting/custody/ being reminded later "your not my father" so I don't have to listen to you/maybe jealousy that the kids might get more attention/ there are ton's of reasons why. Sometimes it can be good & sometime difficult. It would be nice if some of the guys would answer to this one, wouldn't it ? Come on guys. Maybe it's nothing to do with fear maybe it's logic.
What is the name of your place of business ? **The Gym ** What do you weigh & how tall are you ? In what manner do you out ? weights etc ? And what is considered in good shape to you ? You tell us and I will tell you,ok..
I think they should have a pic up. If not I have to wonder what they are hiding. The same goes for every-one male & female alike. If they are on here to make friends or find a lover for keeps then why do they hide themselves from us. Really makes me wonder about them.
RE: What Scares You About New Relationships?
I am in the willing section.