I agree with everything doglover said . Your post speaks to me of a genuine and creative person . You don't need to become overwhelming. You're fine just the way you are . I think many young men like yourself reach late 20s 30s and perhaps suffered heartache along the way then feel depressed wondering will I ever meet someone who will love me for me? . Yes you will find love . Life can change unfold in an instant and you will find love happiness contentment . Don't strive or worry too much about it you're only 30yrs old . I think 30 yrs is a real marker in our lives even more than being 21 yrs old . At 30 yrs your leaving youthfulnessness behind 40 looms in front and you think I've only got ten years to meet someone settle down have children etc lots of people get panicky around 30 yrs old .and women especially as fertility declines fast after age 30 yrs and most women still hope to have children . Go to events where people who are creative go . That's where you will meet someone suitable . Don't let the experience of online be a decider it can be very discouraging . As an artist why not decide to teach others even for free you'll find it's worthwhile in every way . Best of luck and remember you're fine being you .
........there's a saying ......".there's no fool like an old fool .".....this applies to you here in this situation .young women are being kind to a grandad type or else they're desperate for American citizenship and might see you as their entry visa . ....good luck .
Think your in wrong place .....western women won't fit your expectations best look for an Indian woman with whom you'll have most in common . ......who covers herself who is subservient to her partner ......in the West there is more equality . ....you sound like that would be a big challenge for you .
First imorssion beautiful eyes prety sweet and suorised to see your 48 as look much gounger .fir me tge minute yoy start banging on about religion i want to run .....im a woman ....but I'd say lots of people don't want a fervent religious type regardless of whether Christian or other faith . So my advice is try a Christian dating site where you more likely to meet the man for you .take care and stay safe .... it's a big bad world online ...
RE: How do I become more approachable, and interesting?
I agree with everything doglover said . Your post speaks to me of a genuine and creative person . You don't need to become overwhelming. You're fine just the way you are . I think many young men like yourself reach late 20s 30s and perhaps suffered heartache along the way then feel depressed wondering will I ever meet someone who will love me for me? . Yes you will find love . Life can change unfold in an instant and you will find love happiness contentment . Don't strive or worry too much about it you're only 30yrs old . I think 30 yrs is a real marker in our lives even more than being 21 yrs old . At 30 yrs your leaving youthfulnessness behind 40 looms in front and you think I've only got ten years to meet someone settle down have children etc lots of people get panicky around 30 yrs old .and women especially as fertility declines fast after age 30 yrs and most women still hope to have children . Go to events where people who are creative go . That's where you will meet someone suitable . Don't let the experience of online be a decider it can be very discouraging . As an artist why not decide to teach others even for free you'll find it's worthwhile in every way . Best of luck and remember you're fine being you .